I wish it was so simple as just politics…
No it is my daughter, she is in her mid 20’s. She has a lot of problems, it would take volumes to explain, but to be short, she suffers from emotion / mental illness, and has for a long time.
She, as many do, do not take their medication. I understand that. And as many do, she finds someone seeming worse than herself, with the hopes of helping them. I understand that as well.
The problem is that she has found someone that is very nice, however has a very real and debilitating brain tumor / growth thing going on, he has seizure’s. My daughter, moved him in with her, and makes his life hell. I understand some of the reason why he stays, they are out in the boonies and he is unable to drive, and he has NO family. If I could I would bring him home with me, but I can not. Also I can not afford a third house.
He wants to do things like take medications regularly, have health insurance, get this medical condition taken care of, keep a job, eat on a regular basis. His keeper, my daughter is only happy (well as happy as she can get) when is making something or someone else suffer. Currently it is this young man, and the dog. I have been paying for years for her to stop with me, her sibling and her children.
She will not take medications and I know that I take care of minimal expenses out of guilt. I have spent a lot of money for this insight.
My daughter has never been abused, or neglected in anyway. She came this way. I am told there is no way to fix her. And I have to separate from her. Guilt prevents this for me. I am sure I have done something wrong. I have really done everything except breath for her.
Her current boyfriend is not strong, and thinks he loves her, she only wants him so she is not alone. When I took him to the hospital Sunday night I had to threaten her (so she believed me) that she could not just leave him there and burn his things.
I “see” the future things that will happen. I want to stop them, but I can not. The guilt is so large I can not even be able to put it in words.
Yes she has children, it is very hard to keep her influences away from them.
I have tried to condense everything for time.