“Could he still have feelings?” you ask.
Yes, specifically sexual feelings. After three days he wants another booty call.
I hate to be so blunt but as it appears he learned nothing from your breakup regarding how you expect to be treated, that’s the most logical conclusion.
And now that you’ve obliged him with a commitment-free booty call, expect the same treatment for as long as you’re willing to be used by him.
If he would have the kind of feelings that you’re hoping for (rather than just plain garden variety lust) he would be wanting to talk with you and would care about what’s going on with you outside of the bedroom.
But it appears that he’s not THAT eager for any extraneous contact with you which won’t help him get his rocks off.
We teach people how to treat us. If you continue allowing him to use you for sex, he will continue to do just that. It’s up to you.
You can’t force him to make you more important in his life, dare I say a priority. He either wants to be with you apart from just sex or he doesn’t. That’s just the plain unvarnished truth of the matter. You care far more about him than he does about you. Period. And that makes you vulnerable. And he knows it.
I guess he can pretend for awhile if he’s really hard up for a sex partner but eventually his true colors will show again.
Don’t you deserve better? I’ll just give you a little piece of advice from the author of a book about how men think.
His advice to women in your situation was “Don’t waste the pretty.”
In other words, don’t keep wasting time on a guy who clearly doesn’t make you a priority in his life. You’ll be getting older while he’ll be sexually satisfied and that’s all it will ever be. And when he meets the woman he wants to commit to that’s where he will be spending his time and energy and you’ll be a distant memory.
And in the meantime you are not available to meet the man for whom you are the Sun moon and stars put together. That’s what you deserve. But as long as you’re wrapped up emotionally with someone who does not value you (for anything other than sex) the vibe you give off subconsciously to every other guy you meet is that you’re not available.
Go find a guy who truly values you. They are out there. Don’t waste the pretty.
When a guy finds the one woman for him out of all the others, he does whatever he has to do to let her know that. He doesn’t want to run the risk of another guy scooping her up. He spends as much time with her as possible either in person or on the phone.
That’s what a guy in love does. That’s quite different from a guy in lust.
You can’t force him to love you. Move on.