I don’t think people know. They have these impressions based on myths, like the welfare queen myth, and because they know one person like that, they think everyone on welfare is like that. I mean, we don’t even have welfare any more, and yet even people like me call it that. That’s part of the problem.
But when I asked a question about how people have experienced poverty, I got a whole lot of interesting answers that weren’t about stereotypes, except from one person. But the rest of it was about how you get trapped when you have no money, and suddenly everything becomes so much harder. The smallest mistakes get compounded instantly, and you get dug futher and further into the hole.
You can’t plan. You get a ticket or bounce a check and suddenly you can’t raise money for food or heat or to fix the car. Then you can’t get to work. You lose your job, and then you are worse off than ever. You can’t win for losing.
I don’t think people understand that. Even if they did understand, they might not believe it because I think we like to blame the victim. If you’re poor, is must be your own damn fault.
I think people have a fear of poverty. They don’t want to be sympathetic. They feel like they will be taken advantage of. No one wants to be a fool. And maybe it feels like being a fool to help someone. Being taken advantage of is the worst. Especially when you are trying to do good and you have good intentions.
There’s a fear that if you give something, you’ll never see the end of it. It’s like in Japan, if you save someone’s life, then you are responsible for that life from then on. You are responsible for what that person does. I think that if Americans had that same ethos, they would never save anyone’s life, because they couldn’t control the person, and who knows what they would do.
In order to get people out of poverty, you have to provide the assistance those people want, and then you have to stand back and let them make their own mistakes. You can’t make them do the right thing. Yet all Americans seem to think that if they help someone, they have a right to tell them what to do and have that person do what they are told. We infantalize the poor.
Libertarians see this, and want to fall back, and let the poor take care of themselves. They don’t want to infantalize anyone. But this doesn’t work because very few poor can do much without resources. Republicans of course think that if they give money, they get to control the poor, and Democrats are little different, I think.
I think we do have a class war, although I’m not sure that people really understand what differences there are between us. Or rather, they see lots of differences, but they don’t see the important differences, and mostly they don’t understand how to work effectively with these differences.
I doubt if we will make much progress with poverty. But I know we can’t afford to stop trying. Our economy will not survive without more workers, and the unemployed and the poor need to get training so they can do the work that is there to be done.