NSFW How do I pleasure my boyfriend?
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November 21st, 2012
I’m 19, and have been with my boyfriend (22) for a few months, and we’ve had sex already, although when he met me he was a virgin. Because i’m at least 3 hours away from him at uni, we don’t get to see each other that much, but always text. We’ve spoken about things we’d like to try out etc, but when I go home in a few weeks for christmas, i’d really like to make it special. Especially as i’ve had a horrible few months, and he’s been amazing, so I want to show him i’m thankful for it. So any ideas on how to make sex even more pleasurable and special for him?
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Ask him what he would like.
Why not ask him what he would like, what his fantasies are and what might be fun to learn together.
One man’s pleasure is another’s irritation.
At that age all you really have to do is show up. But if you want it to be amazing communication is the key. About everything.
As a male, I’d definitely be thrilled and turned on if my lady was away and asked me what would turn me on. The anticipation of getting back together would be delicious. Be careful, though. Some of us men can have fantasies that may disgust the average female. Don’t even ask the question if you can’t handle the answer. Or as Harry S. Truman said, “If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.” I don’t think he was talking about that kind of heat, but if the shoe fits…
Just to be on the safe side, you might want to lay out your limits in advance. If you aren’t open to a threesome, say so. Any paraphilias that would gross you out , list them.
Hey, if all works out well, you’ll have him dreaming up the scene that would blow his mind, revealing to you what his inner fantasy world is, and then enduring the onslaught of racing hormones for weeks as he waits for the big lay, er… day.
How ever it cums out (or goes in) have a great time, you two love bunnies.
Just don’t talk a whole lot, fix him some food and let him drink as much as he wants…..he will be happy. :)
I think This will clarify it for you.
Hmmm how comfortable are you with him? I’m seeing someone now who I am so comfortable with that I feel like there is no problem asking him what crazy stuff he is into. The only thing you can do is test the waters. Think about something you haven’t done yet or feel you need to do more of that can be pleasurable for both. Sometimes when you make it all about him, he’ll turn it around and make it about you ;)
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