Best to know her exact tastes on certain items (flavors, colors, scents etc.) candles and perfume and chapstick are terrific, but only if you know the tastes and scents she likes.
These are some of my favorite things:
Small scented soy candles, grapefruit, pine or cedar scents (other scents kind of turn me off). So find out what scents she likes.
Inexpensive, but cute earrings. I like very small, very short dangly earrings, with a small bead or a stone, but nothing long or flashy or heavy (I have delicate lobes that tend to stretch with anything bigger than the size of a pea).
Chapstick, I like Burt’s Bees products or regular Chapstick in mint (but the cherry flavor kind of makes me gag, or anything that is lolly-pop like bubblegum-like is icky) so find out what she likes.
A small bottle of an Essenstial Oil, in a scent that she loves. For me, that’s cedar. I like to put a drop or 2 on a pillow in my bedroom. (Most of the other scents I don’t like at all). You need to smell them first so that you know you like the scent, so don’t buy online, get them at a real store with samples. Places like Whole Foods sell them, and boutique stores that sell spiritual items ususually have them too.
A little container of Tiger Balm. This is a little type of ointment that is kind of like icy hot, only it has a distinctive exotic scent, sort of patchouli-esque, or maybe more like cloves, but if you have an achy neck and a tension headache, a little bit of Tiger Balm rubbed on the neck and the temples can do wonders. It also opens up your sinuses, but it doesn’t smell like Ben Gay.
A small bag of pistachios, or smoked almonds or flavored cashews. Yum!
Her favorite gum.
A fridge magnet photo frame with a picture of you, and/or her pet or her folks.
Some cute bandaids with cartoon characters on them.
A handmade coupon book that she can redeem for foot rubs, back massages, dinner made by you etc.
A bottle of her favorite color of nail polish, or a fun new color with glitter in it Like This
One of those inexpensive little plastic back massagers
A tiny ceramic figurine of something she likes. Maybe it’s an animal or a gingerbread house or some other Christmassy thing that you know is particularly special to her. I have a small collection of Piglets Does she have a favorite of the 7 dwarves, or one that she reminds you of?
If she wears any kind of hair accessories, then hair bands, scrunchies, barrettes or clips would be good. You can never have too many of those, because they always get lost.
A small box of chocolates, or chocolate covered pretzels or some various colors and flavors of Sweet Sticks which I prefer to candy canes. Peppermint tends to burn my tongue. Lemon and strawberry flavors are more my taste. Oh, and some chocolate covered espresso beans! Oh, and her favorite mints.
I tend to use a lot of sharpie pens. Do you know what kind of pens or pencils or highlighters she uses? You can never have too many of those. My dad likes those fine point red felt markers so he can mark off stuff in the TV guide LOL. And to go along with this theme, a block of post-it notes in her favorite color.
Another thing that I liked to get, which is now in my wallet, is one of those credit card sized Tipping Guides (because I can’t do math) and one of those same sized pliable magnifying glasses (because I also can’t see the check either).
Some Vegetarian Beef Jerky Whole Foods and other specialty markets sell all sorts of different brands.
A container of one of the “new” exotic salts, like Hawaiian Pink Salt if she likes to cook.
Also, because you all know that I do love to cook, I’d like a set of Mise en Place Bowls These are the bowls that you use to Put in Place all of your ingredients, measured out in order before you compose a recipe. They come in all sizes, but lately I’ve been seeing these cute little ones in ceramic, metal and glass, which are more for salt and spices and minced herbs. They’re smaller than custard cups, so a set of 3 or 4 will easily fit in a stocking.
I also love tea, especially Tazo brands teas.
Does she like to do crafts? I just saw some small hot glue guns that came in multiple colors. I also love glitter glue and paint brushes.
Do you know if she has a favorite recipe? Maybe something that her Mom or Grandma made when she was little? If you could get a copy of that recipe, especially hand written, then get it laminated, that would be very cool.
OK, I’m done : )