@hearkat I am sorry you experienced that and believe me I am strongly in the women’s corner, though not at the cost of all else.
Let me explain child molestor’s don’t do well in prison, isolation or beat up. So less is more he will have a higher incentive not to come back.
I believe they would have a shorter sentence then involuntary manslaughter and higher crimes.
Especially if labeled consensual.
You were probably referencing my consensual remark. I understand that often times these things aren’t actually consensual. Power and ignorance plus family can be very confusing and a yound individual is rarely prepared for that sort of dilemma.
Although that is not always the case. Sometimes a girl understands the law and her rights and is the pursuer regardless, not meaning she is capable of good judgment. Hopefully she will grow up to understand the flaw in her thoughts.
We were not given enough info to decide what the actual circumstances were.
You might not agree with me. It couldn’t be consensual in any shape or form. I have seen some predatory youths so while I think this behavoir indictative of a larger problem
I hesitantly disagree.
The distinction is she will grow up. She will have a choice to change. These other people won’t or don’t.
Also I am thinking he will have record meaning he can be looked up or traced.
Also I would like to ask if your life is ruined? Sure it was tough it was a trauma something to overcome and in someways you probably deal with it a little everyday much less the triggers.
But it is who you are. And I happen to think you are a smart thoughtful and caring person from the posts I have seen. I think this helped shape you and of course you don’t want to expose anyone else to that trauma. But I absolutely don’t think it ruined your life.
Which sounds presumptuous except I experienced sexual abuse and abuse in general and though I wish it hadn’t happened I know I have become a stronger person because of it.
So under the assumption that they would all pick up their criminal activities again I drew the line at human life. Because those people don’t have a choice to become stronger, they cease to exist.