I am a teacher who has been living in the Netherlands for some decades, where gun crime is extremely rare and mostly linked to large scale robberies and where guns are completely illegal for citizens. I was hoping that I could bring a sober outsider point of view to the table.
Granted though – unfortunately the culture in the US is going full circle to Wild West justice for All style living which is very scary. But I would like you to consider something A LOT SCARIER, especially all you people who do actually have kids in school – and I would like to focus specifically on kids with guns:
There is a lot of talk about mental health. I, however, would like to challenge that MANY KIDS WHO GO TRIGGER HAPPY ARE COMPLETELY NORMAL, harmless kids with an opportunity to do harm.
How many kids are bullied, go to bed at night dreaming of blowing up someone’s head, shooting a teacher or a fellow student or even his parents or carers. This is a totally normal human way of venting anger and issues. This is why we “sleep on it” and have a new perspective the next day.
Now give this completely normal angry kid access to a gun…..
So my point is that people always start digging into mental health backgrounds when a shooting occurs. Guns, however, should never ever be an option to begin with. If it isn’t, that angry kid fantasizing about doing harm will simply dismiss it as silly and go to school armed with his fists, his lunch box and his fast legs.
People have to realize that bullying in society is a real problem. But it does not stop at school and it does not stop at growing up. Many schootings occur by someone with a chip on their schoulder, no matter what their age is. And the longer it lies dorment, the stronger it can be. These are cropped up emotions – not mental health issues. Those should be the last people to give access to ANYTHING that can be construed as a deadly weapon, let alone guns.
Focus should be on anger management and educating kids that guns are not the answer. We need to start educating our kids that guns are bad and only for on TV and that there is help and support for just about any feelings they may have. We should all be responsible parents and help the turnaround of an increasingly aggressive militant culture. Strangly enough none of the 21 measures that Mr Obama (bless his soul) suggests actually attacks issues from this very basic angle.
Therefore, the above is a tall order. In the US, A monster has been created within a culture and I could write a book on how I think a U-turn could be achieved in this mentality. None of it would be very helpful unless guns are made illegal to the common citizen. Of course we all know that this is very improbable in the US. Sad as it is, a lot of people in the US feel that it is their God-given right to defend themselves with the power to kill, not simply to immobilize. The word “defence” on it’s own already suggests that all other means of negotiation are out the back door. Just the other day, an elderly man shot two teenagers just because they had an argument on his property. He had no mental health issues but he felt that he had the right to kill.
The only way to stop deaths by shooting is to ban guns for any other purpose than a legally professional need and institutionalise/imprison any citizen who gets caught having one. This measure does not exlude any serviceman who uses a gun inappropriately. Amnesty would have to be granted for anyone to hand in any guns or other deadly weapons, as happens in Britain for instance. Any gun sold legally should be trackable and serious sentences should be upheld for possession of illegal weapons.
This would of course never happen in America without enormous protest, a series of dead presidents and maybe even civil war. Until then, I opt to kiss my kids good-bye at the back door every morning and wave them off on their cycles that will take them unharmed and without guidance to a safe Dutch school.
I am sorry that this blog has turned more into an article, but appreciate anyone who is still reading and hope to have added a fresh view to the arguments.