I live north of Tampa proper, and work downtown.
If he’s working in St. Pete, I highly recommend moving to Pinellas County. No one in this state knows how to drive on an Interstate, so rush hour traffic is horrific.
I take I-275 about seven exits. If I leave my house at 7:10, I get to work at 7:35–7:40. If I leave my house at 7:20, I don’t get here until 8:30. It’s that predictable and that stupid. And I don’t even have to cross a bridge.
We have a guy here at the office who lives in St. Pete, but he’s on vacay this week. I can ask him when he gets back what his drive is like crossing the Howard Franklin during the rush. Of course it won’t be the right direction but it might give you an idea.
You’re generally not going to want to live anywhere east of 275 between Hillsborough and Bearss. That encompasses Sulphur Springs (actual name) and Suitcase City (the “affectionate” term for the place no one stays long if they can help it.)
Malls I like: Citrus Park is adorable. International Plaza, of course – it’s ginormous. Wiregrass Mall in Pasco County is an outdoor place that occasionally has free concerts in the courtyard and events for the kids around holidays.
I love Downtown St. Pete. A great afternoon is spent beginning at The Oyster Bar on Central, then off to a Rays game at the Trop. We’re also furniture at the State Theater holy effing eff, Nile’s coming in April!
Much to do in Ybor City. For music: The Crowbar, The Ritz, I don’t go to Orpheum because their manager hires bullies for bouncers. That’s also where you’re going to find the nightclubs. I don’t know the mainstream ones well, but I love The Castle – where “everyone is welcome, and nothing is taboo”
… that’s all I can think to say right now. If you want to know anything at all, just ask! I’d love to have a Jelly Friend around!