I know I’m long-winded here but, here goes. Bear with me…
1. Deaf people are NOT stupid. Many have language delays because of lack of access to a full range of language models, and for the same reason, might have odd social skills, but are not cognitively affected. Most of them get through life with access to less than 50% of the information around them—when you think about it that way… that’s damn hard, and they still do it. Many do it exceptionally well. Think about 50% or more of the information around you becoming inaccessible—what would you do?
2. No matter what Marlee Matlin et. al. can do on TV, lip reading the back of someone’s head is just not possible. Only 25% of speech sounds are visible on the lips. The rest is guesswork from context.
3. Speech and intelligence are not linked in any way. Also, speech therapy does not move with the person—if they learned to speak in Alabama, it’s not going to help them in Minnesota. I don’t speak well outside the South, but got 33 on my ACT (out of 36), got 83rd percentile on my GRE 15 years out of college, got a perfect score on all 5 of my Praxis tests, am a published writer and… Still, people think I’m stupid because of how I sound. Go out with me one day and you’ll see that most people talk to me like I’m 3 years old. Every single day. And I have to be nice about it (see #10).
4. American sign language is not English with hands flapping. It’s an intricate language with its own grammar, structure, prosody, rules, breadth and depth. It’s an amazing language that would blow your mind if you really understood it.
5. There’s more than one type of Deaf person. Some are great people, and some are just cruel or rude effers. Same as hearing people. Some identify as being disabled, some prefer to “pass” for hearing as much as they can (like many minorities in the past trying to “pass”), and some identify with the Deaf Culture. The culture exists, it’s thriving, alive, very international and… at risk. There are plenty of people working to eradicate Deafness and consequently, the Deaf Culture. The people who try to “pass” are praised and rewarded by the hearing community—they truly believe that’s the right thing to do and it’s their choice, but it does create problems for those who love and want to live within the Deaf community. If you wonder why anyone would choose to live within the Deaf community, my question back is… why would anyone choose to live within the gay, liberal, any ethnic, or any religious community?
7. Deaf people are often thrilled when they have Deaf babies. It’s not wishing a disability on a kid, not at all, but celebrating a new member of the Deaf Community. Many Deaf people like being deaf—it’s part of their identity. Many of my closest friends can hear, I’m not isolated by any means, and I wouldn’t ask to be any different than I am now, with my completely deaf ears.
8. Cochlear implants do not make someone fully hearing. I don’t have problems with the equipment themselves, only the misconceptions about their functionality. They work for up to about 5000 Hz sound frequencies- which means anything with a higher frequency is missing. That includes S, F, Th sounds and many prosody and inflection cues from speech. The sound’s also robotic and mechanical. That means many speech sounds will be accessible, but a lot of meaning from vocal cues won’t be. What’s scary is most people think all that information’s accessible, and expect it to be heard and it’s not, then get so angry at a child for not getting it. To me, that’s just terrible- punishing kids for what they can’t access, and the kid doesn’t even know what they did wrong. Also, the implants are not always successful but the for-profit corporates that make the equipment will never release their fail-rates. You only hear about the successes.
9. Many audiologists, doctors and people who work with “rescuing” deaf kids have a very paternalistic and condescending view of Deaf people. And yes, many Deaf people despise those people. They have the attitude that if we speak up, we’re being bad little deafies—we’re unappreciative and need to be silenced or scolded. They have the Doctorates, EdD’s, AudD’s or MD’s so they’re the experts… we’re just living the life and they still think don’t know what we’re talking about, even though it’s ours 24/7. One such expert on Fluther nicely scolded me on one thread some time back—I could literally feel her patting my head with her words. For me, that was nothing new. Sigh.
10. If we speak up or say anything, we’re often dismissed as being silly or overreactive. We’re often scoffed at for trying to assert our culture. Or, if like in this post, I get a bit edgy, a lot of people will dismiss what I’ve said as just a nonsensical “angry rant.” Oh, get over it. Oh, don’t you have issues? That’s funny—they would never say that to any other minority. Think about it… Native Americans, Hispanics, African-Americans, LGBTQI, Jews and women. Even Little People. They’re lucky. On the most part, they’re recognized by society at large, are considered experts in their own cultures and aren’t so easily dismissed. They fought and got respect, their voices are being listened to by most people. If you have any doubt… think about how these minorities were viewed when they first began to speak up—troublemaking injuns, disturbed women, naughty slave, etc. Any breaking away from oppression follows the same pattern.
I can keep on typing away here, but the bottom line is, I fear the Deaf Culture’s voice will never fully be listened to, for various reasons. The AGBell Association, Starkey Institute, genetic engineers (modern eugenists), etc are very, very powerful and have a singular goal to eradicate deafness. Makes me think of when they sent Native American children to white schools, or tried to pray or medicate homosexuality out of a person. I don’t know what will happen in the next 20, 50, 100 years, but I just know, and would love for my opponents to know that I love my community, I can’t thrive without it, don’t want to live without it, and have a deep desire to preserve it—I just don’t know how much of that is possible.
If you’ve made it this far into my post, thank you for reading. Your time IS appreciated.