How can I get my ex back if I can't talk to her?

15 is too young for an 18 year old. I know it does not answer your question, but I’m trying to help. You could get put in prison or killed by an angry mob for things like that. The age gap is not that big, but when you are over 18 and they are under 16 it creates serious legal problems for you.

Here where I live, you could get 5 years in prison for that. There will be other girls.

If she told you to leave her alone, leave her alone.

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If you love her and you suspect that she secretly loves you, then wait for her. That’s it, just wait. Three years is not so long in the scheme of a long life, is it? You’ll most likely live another 60 years, give or take, and she’ll live longer than that, so you should have plenty of time.

Just wait for her for three years and then contact her again when she’s 18 and free to make these decisions for herself.

If you can’t wait for three measly years, then I doubt very much whether you really love her.

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It’s over, I’ve had the same thing happen, its best to just move on and not think about it.

Move on. If she won’t talk to you, leave her alone. She’s too young for you, anyways.

This may not be what you want to hear, but don’t try to get her back. An ex is an ex for a reason.

If you are as persistent in real life as you are on here (asking the same question (differently worded maybe) three times in succesion) you might have your answer.
It could be that a girlfriend who experiences such behavior from her ex thinks he is a nag.

She’s still a minor, and you are not. Please be mindful that her parents are entitled to keep her away from dating adults. She’s still a child, their child, and perhaps they forbade contact. I don’t think that you will get closure on this. Respect her and her familys’ wishes. No good will come of forcing things. @CWOTUS was correct,if it’s true love for you both, it will still be there. For now though, best to leave things be, and not cause trouble for yourself or others. Love never is easy, and I am sorry that you feel hurt and unresolved. Sometimes, sadly we have to find our resolutions all by ourselves!

The only way you might (and that’s a BIG might) get her back is if you let her go. She said for you to go, any attempt to get her back will only cause resentment towards you and she will never want to be involved with you.

As people said above, she may realize in the future that she wishes you were back in her life. But that will only happen if you let her go absolutely and completely.

Good luck to you, it’s one of the shittiest places in the world to be, but life does get better again.

Those movies where the guy “gets the girl back” are Hollywood lies, sold to make us forget about the fact that life is often a disappointment.

If she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. There is no relationship anymore. There is nothing to get back.

When they are ready they will contact you.

You and her are still in a crucial mental development stage in life. She will think differently in 3 years and so will you because within those ages of males and females is when a new level a maturity hits. I just feel like girls at that age a really vulnerable to making decisions that they will regret within just a few years when they reach adulthood and being in a relationship with an 18 year old male certainly increases the odds of a mistake happening. Like many have said just wait a few years till she grows up a bit and its very possible things will be different.

You don’t get her back.

Let’s look at the facts here:

1) She is a minor you are legally an adult.
2) While in five or six years the age difference will be less significant, right now you’re legally an adult and she is a minor.
3) Statutory rape is a crime, one parents who do not like the man their daughter is dating are very likely to pursue prosecution for.
4) Being guilty of sexual contact with a minor will make you a sex offender which will pretty much ruin any hope you have for a future.
5) Read this one twice because it is huge. She said she doesn’t want to see you anymore. You don’t have to believe she has a good reason. No means no. If she says she is done, she is done.

Leave her alone.

Are you beginning to see a pattern in these answers? These are some pretty wise jellies.

Dude your are still a spring chicken, forget about her and rather concentrate on your schooling o and don’t do drugs…

@wolfy you really, really have to let this relationship go and leave this girl alone. She does not want to get back together with you. She does not want to be friends with you. According to one of the four questions you have asked about this situation, the relationship ended a year ago. Let it go, move on with you life.

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