What do you do if you just can't get over someone and would do anything to get her back?

Be active, concentrate on other things. Go into therapy.

You can’t force someone to love you. And sometimes, things just don’t work out as we might want them to.
That is a very important thing to learn before you can call yourself an adult.

You keep asking the same question and you keep getting the same answer. Enough already!

(Or are you a troll?)

There is nothing you can do to make her feel something for you. You have to move on.

You have to let her go. Find a substitute for your fond memories or thoughts of her. Did you two ever argue or did she ever call you names or do anything bad? If so, each time you start to think about her, substitute a memory of the bad things about her.

Then go out and meet some new girls and find some new activities that put you in the company of other girls.

Focus on your other friendships.

You keep bringing this up here and keep getting the same answer. You are entering the stalker zone. You really need to get some professional help. You may need medication as you don’t seem to be able to get over this obcession. Your brain is in a loop that is going to lead you and those around you to misery.

Therapy or jail, dude, therapy or jail.

@Judi No kidding.

The more obsessed you become the more you will never get over it. I know it sounds insensitive, but snap out of it. YOU are facing the problem, move on, she certainly has while you waste your life pining after her. Pity isn’t it? Enjoy your youth!

Happens to us all, and trust me, it happens more than once. You have no choice but to move on. It’s a cliche but it’s true: time heals.

Can you move? Not being in the same town really helped me.

I know it can be very very hard to get over someone, many of us have been through it, I promise you will too. I highly recommend you go to therapy to help talk it through.

It’s really not that serious. Trust me I always feel I can’t get over a girl after I break up with one then a month later I see a new “dime piece” and I’m head over heels for that one lol. Just being honest. TIME HEALS. Give yourself some time. Focus on other things like sports or school. Get a job, that helps too. If these answers arent helping then yes, maybe it is time to get some help from a therapist.

@JoeyOhSoClever, on another post he said it was over a year ago. She’s 15 and he’s 18

@wolfy you are going to have to do whatever it takes to get past this. Seriously this is like the fifth question from you on this subject. It is time to b honest with yourself and admit that this isn’t about the girl or this relationship, it is about you. Please take @augustlan‘s advice and get some therapy. If you are reluctant to do so, read @syz‘s response, she speaks the truth.

Like others have already pointed out, you seem to be creating an obsession over her. If you two were meant to be, then it would have worked out. But she doesn’t want anything to do with you. If you loved her, you’d respect her decision, and want her to be happy. It sounds like you just want YOU to be happy. I know you love this girl and I know that’s not how you want to come across. Keep your mind active and focused on other things. Find a hobby which you are passionate about and just do it. Watch a 3 hour movie and then write a review on it. Create an Internet blog. Try to recreate Mona Lisa solely using lego pieces. Anything! Just because you want this girl back, doesn’t mean you have to think of her every minute of every day. Just distract yourself, give yourself some TLC, and function independently for a while. I think you’ll find you don’t need her as much as you think you do.

“You would do anything to get her back”?
How about leave her alone..no contact until “She” descides that she wants to contact you.
Your pushing to hard.
It probably frightens her.
Everyone can cope on their own and you can too.
Your life is not so wrapped up in another, that you forget yourself?
Look after yourself first and others will flock to your side.( healthy)
Show her that you are willing to give her space, and that by focusing on other areas of your life that you are demonstrating that you are a healthy well rounded respectfull person.