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Any recomendations for a free online dating site?
I am not cheap and won’t mind donating a small fee should a dating website ask for it, but I do have a problem when they start asking credit card details. I am looking for a website where I can meet up with someone possibly have a future relationship, I tried a few sites and it allows you to have limited access and you got to pay should you wish to chat or send a message.
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