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Should I seek help for this phobia?

Asked by Carinaponcho (1381points) April 29th, 2013 from iPhone

For as long as I can remember, being in rooms with tall ceilings has made me feel uncomfortable. When asked to sleep over someone’s apartment that had tall ceilings, I couldn’t sleep at all that night and I felt a lot of shortness of breath. I felt very uneasy. Whether it be a mall, a theater, or some other building with tall ceilings, I have always felt a bit anxious to leave. But it wasn’t until on Saturday that I went to a museum and began having some trouble breathing. I felt so anxious and upset by being in a building with such tall ceilings. We left, and I meditated with my friend at the beach. She helped to calm me down. Later the same day, we went to a big arena to see a marching band performance. The arena was huge, and within 15 minutes of the performance starting, I started feeling nausea. I began having the same shortness of breath and started feeling very dizzy and light headed. My friend tried calming me down and put his arm around me and tried to distract me but by then I think I was having a full blown panic attack. I was crying and shaking so my sister brought me to the bathroom where I curled up in the corner and shook for another half hour. I don’t know whether or not this qualifies as a legitimate anxiety problem or if it was just an isolated incident. Either way, this has never happened to me before, so if someone has experienced something similar or can give me some advice that would be great. My mother says that since I wasn’t getting a lot of sleep on the trip it may have affected my tolerance of the ceiling.

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KNOWITALL's avatar

Yes, get some help. Anything that is debilitating or not condusive to a full and happy life needs addressed.

I have a fear of heights and being under deep water, but I force myself to do both at times as a shock therapy (even snorkeling freaks me completely out), but other than that, I don’t do either on a regular basis, so it’s not that big of a deal. Good luck!!

zenvelo's avatar

It is a legitimate anxiety problem, because it is disrupting your ability to live as you wish. SO seek out a therapist who can work with you, and may recommend a physician (possibly a psychiatrist) who can prescribe a medication to reduce your anxiety.

Carinaponcho's avatar

@zenvelo I would rather not be dependent on a medication to keep me from having anxiety. What alternative methods are out there?

marinelife's avatar

The answer to whether you should seek treatment is whether the phobia is impeding your life. I would think if you cannot go to arenas, museums, etc. that it is affecting your life. What if your daughter wanted to get married in a large church?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Are you nervous about being outside at all? Or just in rooms with high ceilings?

nofurbelowsbatgirl's avatar

Yes seek help. Anytime emotions become debilitating enough in your life that it affects your everyday normal living then you need to seek help and the proper medical advice. I personally think you should not waste time, your mental health could be at risk.

Carinaponcho's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe no I am completely comfortable being outside.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Carinaponcho That sounds like borderline agrophobia. What bugs you about being outside.

Carinaponcho's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe nothing bugs me about being outside

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Carinaponcho Sorry, misread your answer or we crossed. Hmm, I have to think about that. It’s not agrophobia then. Give me a bit.

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