NSFW:What turns a guy on about a girl they like? Guys only.

I like confidence, honesty, sweetness, consideration, daring, and a bit of the devil in their personality. That turns me on more than anything. And good hygiene is always a plus.

Privacy… and affection.

Nothing about walk, or dress, although it is nice when she dresses up, a woman with a good body is sexy in a burlap sack.

She takes care of herself, and expects others to respect her.

The chin thing? Trying to think of something intelligent to say.

What turns me on is a healthy woman, someone who takes care of herself and eats a healthy diet. And then her wanting to be with me is a huge turn on!

When i rub my chin it’s to make sure I’m not going to giver her razor burn when I go down on her. And if she eats a healthy diet she tastes pretty yummy!

I like women smart and strong enough to beat me up if I step out of line.

I think it is an aura of self-assurance. If she is happy and confident within herself then it makes her a pleasure to be around.
As for the chin rub, you do realize that is why many guys grow beards right? Chin erosion is one of the least discussed endemic social maladies in the world today. Were it not for my beard my chin, and I dare say the chins of the vast majority of males, would just be sharp, pointy nubbins.

actually, I am just making that up about the chin. The real reason is because we would rather be drubbing our dings but experience has taught us that when we rub our crotch women tend to turn and run “like their heads were on fire and their asses were catching”

Waist to hip ratio.

Ha! Great question. And welcome to Fluther, @Valenzcia18. As much as I want to claim all I care about is her mind, her attitude, her thoughts… truth is I also am a sucker for what @Rarebear mentions. It leads to being a philosophical type, because I don’t fall fully in lust till she turns around and starts walking away from me. :-)

But truth told, the sexiest woman alive would be impossible to love with and live with over the long haul unless her mind, her attitude, her thoughts, her sense of humor and her compassion for others are all in the right place as well. It takes more than just having the right curves.

The first thing I notice about a woman I don’t yet know is how she smells as she passes by. Sweet, feminine and subtle. If she’s well groomed by unfussy looking. It shows she takes care that she feels she looks presentable and composed.

With a woman I have met, her sincerity and sense of humour make her interesting. A woman unafraid to make and hold eye contact is sexy.

I can tell you what turns me off and that is zero confidence and ditsyness. Mainly the latter. NOW it’s not to say I can’t be friends with either of the two types.

Sanity and intelligence.

I don’t care how big your tits are or how perfectly-shaped your ass is; if you’re crazy and/or stupid, I don’t want you. Conversely, if you’re levelheaded and witty, I won’t care if you need to lose 50 pounds, dress in thrift-shop rejects, or have the graceful moves of a drunk orangutan.

It’s all about personality. Self-confidence without arrogance, intelligence, independence, honesty, empathy and good hygeine.

For long term relationship, it is about the personality of the girl. Whether the personality or attitude of hers is to your liking. For short term (or sex only) relationship, mainly the attractiveness of her body – breasts, butts, shapely figure, sexy body. Also her willingness to play along.

@jerv What’s wrong with drunk orangutans?

All of those things you’ve mentioned are physical things that I consider to be important to some degree, but secondary. Generally what turns me on the most about a girl is someone who isn’t obsessed with playing out their gender role, and a girl who doesn’t have too high of masculine expectations of me. I’m at my happiest when I can be myself and not hide it, so I need a woman that I can share this with. Frighteningly enough it has been very difficult to find a woman who fits such a simple criteria, at least in my case. Looks and mannerisms aren’t everything.

What turns me on about the girl/s that I like is… that it’s her doing it, showing it, being it.

This is hard to say, really. The girl that I like is “it” for me. I like everything that she does, basically, even some of the bitchy things sometimes, because I’m just that whipped.

But if you were asking me instead, why do I like her, then it might be easier to respond. Because she’s not trying to make me like her, for one thing. That is pretty much the quickest turn-off there is. She’s just being herself, and I like who “she” happens to be. But (here I’m describing a particular person, who may not be the same as the next one, if there ever is one) she has a way of looking at me that lets me know I have her total attention. She has a way of touching me that lets me know that it was not accidental, that she knew I wanted or needed that touch, and she meant it to have the exact effect that it had… or she withholds that touch, which makes me want it and need it even more. She has a way of responding to my touch that lets me know that it was needed and wanted, too… or moving just out of reach, to make me want to touch her even more.

She gets my jokes and likes them, or she doesn’t, and says so. She doesn’t pretend to enjoy things that she doesn’t understand or like, but she doesn’t condemn me for liking things that she doesn’t understand or like.

She lets me know, gently, even if it’s abrupt sometimes, when something or someone more important has commanded her attention, such as her kids. She doesn’t pretend to pay attention when she can’t.

She doesn’t tell me every detail of her life, and she doesn’t even welcome my asking. But from time to time she will tell me the most intimate secrets of her own life, and expect me to guard them.

So, to sum up these attributes: She is by turns mysterious and open, captivating and aloof, intelligent and curious, funny and serious, honest and diplomatic, tactful and direct, loving and cool… she’s a lot of opposites, really. She is just herself. And I was lying about the ‘bitchy’ parts. She’s never that.

@CWOTUS: If you can accept her the way she is, why not?