@syz
When you use the term “force feeding” are you also referring to syringe feeding.
I do realize that if done incorrectly, it could lead to pneumonia as you mentioned.
I think my vet was saving the feeding tube as a last resort (since it is basically a surgical procedure) and gave me very specific instructions along with a demo.
They said not to put the food back near her throat or even to do it straight from the center.
I put small amounts in that little space between her teeth on the side. They told me not to rush it and use small amounts of food only and not too much water to dilute it.
I did not hold her on her back ( like a baby) but kept her upright on the kitchen counter which was the perfect height.
And fortunately, after the first few times, I found that she would lap it up off a spoon quite willingly so that worked out much better.
They did warn me about the possibility of pneumonia if she got food in her windpipe so even tho it took longer, I just used small amounts on the side of her mouth so that she swallowed in her own time instead of “forcing” it down her throat.
Fortunately, this whole process was only necessary for a few days since she really took to the FF eagerly.
For a cat as sick as that of the OP, I realize its not as simple and I was pretty fortunate that Smoochie’s appetite problems were not longstanding.
But I really think that the syringe feeding and the Fancy Feast made a world of difference toward a good result.
I’m also curious about whether or not you’ve had to deal with cats who just stopped eating or drinking following a spay ? This was the first time I’ve ever seen this and I’ve had many cats spayed over the years as have many of my friends and never heard of this.
Is it the shock of the surgery or what? It was such a strange and alarming experience. I guess she really is super sensitive.