I think that @DominicX makes a very interesting observation. The practices and principles described on that site are practically identical to the exact same type of relationships which can be found in SOME parts of the LGBTQ community.
If I remember correctly, you live iin San Francisco. I find it difficult to imagine that you are totally unaware of the Leather community, a significant percentage of which have the exact same practices between consenting adults. (It sure isn’t JUST that they fetishize dressing in leather. Many of them are in ongoing consensual BDSM relationships.) Is that abuse in your eyes?
We’re you totally unaware of this? And in addition to spanking skills, there are many who go a few steps farther with whips, floggers, ropes, bondage hoods etc. And many of them can back up their boasts about skill with those whips and flogging accoutrements by solid knowledge on how to use them Upon their submissives without causing permanent damage.
Does your head also burst when you see the leather community section in every year’s Pride Parade with some of the Masters leading their handcuffed slaves down the street? (They prefer that terminology rather than the archaic HOH) Is that abuse or mutually consensual role play?
Does your head also explode at the thought that there are also lesbians who find satisfaction with each other in BDSM relationships? They don’t advertise it as openly as most of the guys since it is a bit frowned upon by other lesbians as not being PC enough for empowered women to be participants in, but they definitely exist. And they exist because both people want it to be that way. They find enjoyment in eroticizing power play. If the submissive didn’t want it, they would simply walk away.
You’ve expressed before that you just want people to stop judging you for being a member of the LGBTQ community who has a wife of the same sex rather than a husband. But do you judge other members of that very same group who participate in Dominant/submissive relationships with the exact same practices (and a whole lot more) as contained in that website?
If not, good for you. ( If so, you might want to rethink that a bit since I’m sure that they feel the exact same way you do about being judged for their lifestyle choices.)
But I’m going to go on the assumption that you DO NOT sit in judgement upon the other gay folks who simply have a different expression of their relationships than the rest of the LGBTQ community.
So, I just have one more quick question. Do people who practice some form or another of a Dominant/submissive relationship structure get a pass ONLY IF they’re gay? That doesn’t burst your head because they’re part of the same community as yourself?
But anybody belonging to a different group (Christians, for instance) makes your brain explode? What about Republicans :)
Interesting.
So, apparently, according to you, only gay people can enjoy their sexual relationships with a side order of kinkiness? Others run the risk of bursting your head? Have I got the picture right? Please do enlighten me :)