Am I okay?

Tell an adult where you live or call 911. You might have just broken your hymen which is normal, for a young woman… how old are you? I’m guessing that someone should be looking after you. Ask that person for advice on the birds and the bees.

I’m im between 10–15

You should talk to an adult that’s there with you (like one of your parents). Depending on how much bleeding you are having, you may need to see a doctor sooner than later.

Did the bleeding stop? If it stopped you are probably ok, but you should tell your mom or dad. If you haven’t stopped bleeding it can be very dangerous, because too much loss of blood can kill you. Don’t be worried that you ruined your vagina or anything like that, your biggest concern should be that you are bleeding, that would be true for any part of your body. Tell your parents no matter what so they can decide if it was a dangerous hit or not. Let us know how you are doing.

@talljasperman She might have broken her hymen call 911. The birds and the bees. Seriously? You don’t mean that breaking her hymen is reason to go to the hospital. I’m going to assume you are just worried about the blood loss. I hope anyway.

@kimchi How much bleeding?

The bleeding stopped.

Good. How do you feel? I assume you are sore. Did you tell your mom?

No you are not okay go see a doctor asap!

@antimatter How do you know if she is ok or not?

Yes, I did tell my mom. She said I will probably be fine, and tell her if anything changes, we will go to the doctor.

Not to be rude or intrusive, but is the bleeding internal or external. Did you see any cuts/scrape,gashes, bruising etc. Around area?

Did the metal pole enter your vagina or did you merely do a hard landing on the metal pole. If you hit the metal pole to the extent that it actually entered your vagina (?!) then I would go to the ER. If you simply straddled it and bruised yourself then apply ice, wait about 10 days and you will feel better.