I’m in @livelaughlove21 ‘s camp. It’s OK to occasionally eat some of the items from the bad list if you simply do it in moderation, and eat very healthy most of the rest of the time. You aren’t trying to punish yourself, concentrate on being a better eater and a more healthy person.
Although being a vegetarian, I did cut out meat/fish/fowl completely, but that is for other reasons rather than being health-conscious. Luckily I do not get tempted by meat, mostly because I’ve found so much other vegetarian stuff (that I didn’t know existed or had never tasted before I became a vegetarian) that is totally yummy and satisfying.
My biggest weakness is cheese, and I do try to limit my intake, just because it’s got a lot of fat. But I would never consider giving it up completely. Some of the lower fat versions of some cheeses are readily available and I can barely taste the difference. On the other hand, I’ve yet to find a fat-free cheese that tastes good. Until recently I had never found a vegan “cheese” that tasted any good until I tasted Daiya Cheese Wedges. Daiya also makes several shredded cheeses (that I have not tried) but some people said that they have a different taste and texture and that the Daiya wedges are superior in taste in texture. I had some of this cheese at a vegan restaurant in Los Angeles (I’m in the U.S. not sure if you are) called The Loving Hut
One thing that we did change at our house was switching from regular margarine (we do eat butter, but usually only on Thanksgiving and Christmas when we have company) to Smart Balance Buttery Spread which contains plant sterols that help to lower cholesterol, plus it contains no trans fats. Even my Dad, who is a picky eater loves this stuff. It tastes pretty much like butter.
My Mom and I gave up white bread a long time ago. Any bread that we eat has to be 100% whole grain. I’m so used to that now, that white bread seems very unappealing to me. We tend to eat Oroweat, Milton’s, Nature’s Own, or Trader Joe’s breads. They’re all soft and neutral tasting, not dry or bitter (some brands are way too dry and crumbly and don’t taste good).
Back in the olden days we used to eat iceberg lettuce, but a long time ago we realized that iceberg lettuce doesn’t have much nutritonal value compared to some of the other lettuces such as green leaf, red leaf or Romaine, which is what we usually eat. Here is the nutritional differences between Iceberg and Romaine
I used to eat baked potatoes with sour cream. Now, I use non-fat Greek yogurt as a topping for taters.
And speaking of yogurt, I used to eat regular full fat yogurt, now I only eat non-fat yogurt, which tastes pretty much the same as regular.
When I was a little kid, around aged 3 (in the mid 60’s) my Mom stopped putting sugar in tea. Since then, neither one of us can stomach the idea of putting sugar in tea. Tea has such a wonderful flavor of it’s own and sugar masks that delicious flavor. No sugar in my coffee either.
Been finding some frozen meals and dried pasta that is partly whole grain lately. Completely 100% whole grain pasta tastes too bitter to me, but these new and improved pastas that are partially whole grain (some also have added protein, calcium and fiber) taste almost identical to regular pasta. Yay! Here is some info regarding taste tests with whole grain pastas from Consumer Reports
I’ve also switched out from eating regular Ramen Noodles (which are fried and loaded with preservatives and sodium) to eating Baked Organic Ramen Noodles