How do I ask my exfriend for forgiveness ?

I think that you should consider the friendship over and move on.

You don’t need to. I assure you, as an older man. You do not need to.

Women get over crap quicker than young men. You are not in her thoughts. I promise you. Apologizing to women who are not thinking about you only makes you look creepier. I wish my dad had told me this. Please, for all that is holy, let it go.

@talljasperman Check your private messages.

Forgive yourself. I do.

Flowers…....and a cheap sentimental card.

” I called it psychic astral time travel, and I thought that because I was in psychology that I can get shielded from scorn with a basic academic freedom.” What does that sentence mean @talljasperman?

So you love her as more than a friend, but waited until she was with someone else to tell her that? Okay, plausible, at least you said something eventually, but yeah, bad timing I guess.

I’d just friend her on fb, or text and tell her that you miss her, and can you have coffee soon, nice and easy. She’ll be open to it or not.

If Wicca and astral time travel have anything to do with the basic question, I can’t see how.

@KNOWITALL I read it as she put a spell on him and he fell under it. But, that is just my interpretation of the question.

She put a spell on him but because he was in psychology he should have been protected from the spell???

@rojo & @Dutchess_III laughing I know next to nothing about Wicca, but the people I have met were all fairly non-violent and not negative.

But just wait till ya piss ‘em off and they put a spell on you and cause you to time travel! But if you take some psychology classes, you should be OK. I think.

You did nothing wrong. She on the other hand had led you on?
She should had appologised to you, then.
Now both are in different paths and far from each other. She and you are different people now.
You may be wishing her to be “as she was”?
University days are over and so is the experiences that you had long ago.
Be willing to close that chapter of your life and continue on knowing that you did the best under the circumstances at that time.
Heal those old emotional hurts and then you will be ready to meet the girl of yur dreams that
was meant for you. You cannot IF you are always going back to old loves.
Learn to accept that which one cannot change.
Fate has a way of bringing two people together IF they were meant to be.
trust that there is a woman for you in your future that will top the old love.
Best of luck to you.