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Did you ever had a crush on someone who was twice your age?

Asked by Eggie (5926points) August 16th, 2013

I am referring to when you were a teenager. Did you ladies ever had a crush on a guy who was 30 or 40 years old when you were a teenager? For the guys, did you ever had a crush on a woman who was twice or three times your age, maybe your mom’s friend or neighbor perhaps?

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talljasperman's avatar

(NSFW) The grade 9 art/gym teacher. We got into tickling each other before the principal broke us up… She was in my arms off the ground and we were staring at each other lovingly. I miss her.(NSFW) I devolved a cotton fetish from her cotton sweat shirt and cotton sweat pants.

augustlan's avatar

Maybe not quite twice my age, but sure. I’d think it’s probably pretty common at that age.

Blackberry's avatar

Um, duh?

I’ve had relations with women twice my age, it’s not a big deal. :)

@talljasperman Please, sir…Go on…..

Michael_Huntington's avatar

Something like this happened

jonsblond's avatar

I never did. Anyone over 25 was too old for me.

talljasperman's avatar

@Blackberry I met her for a co-ed gym , mandatory social dance, I refused to dance with any of the girls and I said that I was shy , and she told me that any girl in the gym will dance with me without hesitation, so I picked one… her, and we lovingly slow danced with my hand on the small of her back and her arms on my 6’6” shoulders… We slow danced for 15 minutes… and ended in an embrace. Then the principal broke us up again.

Supacase's avatar

10/11th grade English teacher. (Small school). He was also the yearbook advisor when I was editor my senior year. Many late nights alone in the classroom working on that, but nothing happened other than a lot of great conversation and a bit of mutual flirting.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

No, I was on the opposite side. Some 30 something woman wanted my ass at 19. I wasn’t crazy about it because she was so aggressive.

CWOTUS's avatar

Well, there was this thing I had for Miss Smith in third grade. Although she was about three times my age: 3×7=21 – I learned that in third grade! – she was not “that much” older than I.

Unfortunately, my love and affection for her went unrequited. That bitch.

Pachy's avatar

Oh yes, as a young kid, I had crushes on several of my mother’s friends. One on an aunt, too but let’s not go into that here. ;-)

LornaLove's avatar

Yes totally and also half my age too. Some people are just so dam sexy no matter their age.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

Mainly just celebrities.

bunnyslippers's avatar

Older than me yes, twice my I age I don’t know for sure. I had a crush on an English teacher when I was like 15 or so, she was weird, and as it turned out a lesbian, so no chance of any inappropriate behavior.

two separate qualities not equating her lesbianism with being weird, she was weird. And she was a lesbian.

And a few years later we had a new English teacher, fresh out of college, so not that much older than me at the time, maybe eight years at the absolute most. Anyway we got along quite well, she recognized that I was on a different level <strictly speaking reading and English not necessarily school in general> so she was more comfortable with me and we even had similar senses of humor.

Now she was married, and nothing would ever have happened but my friends could see she treated me differently than them, a hand on my shoulder when she helped me with something, or leaning against me when reading directly from my computer screen and that sort of thing, nothing you’d think anything of with a friend but you would avoid with students for the most part.

Anyway it got to the point it was a running joke that she wanted my body. To this day I don’t know if she knew the rumors were there, but I never attempted to squash them, cause frankly speaking in the immature male part of my mind, they made me feel good, even knowing they weren’t true…

I said way too much again. And for those wondering at my grammar after my quasi-brag, I suck at putting a sentence together and punctuating it, but I can read the crap out of them…

Coloma's avatar

Yes, when I was 8 and I was madly in love with a neighbor kid who was 16. This was the 60’s, he played a mean guitar and looked like Peter Tork form the “Monkees”. lol
I was waaay too young to understand my feelings, but oooh baby.

Katniss's avatar

Oh yes. I was 22 he was 45. He knocked me up and ditched me. Good times.

Seek's avatar

When I was a teenager I had a series of crushes on totally appropriate boys of my own age, all of whom turned out to be gay.

Never had the pleasure of an attractive teacher, alas.

livelaughlove21's avatar

Not an actual person I knew in real life, but most of the male celebrities I fancy are almost twice my age.

downtide's avatar

I had a crush on one of my teachers at school when I was about 15. I don’t think she was quite twice my age but she probably wasn’t far off. That was actually also my first crush on a woman.

tups's avatar

Yes yes. Has happened on several occasions.

jca's avatar

When I was younger, yes. At my age now, twice my age would be 90 and there are not many sexy 90 year olds out there, IMHO.

chyna's avatar

No. No more than 4 years older.

cheebdragon's avatar

Fuck yeah, older guys are hot.

Paradox25's avatar

Yes, I was always attracted to older women. I would find some of my female teachers attractive, and more so than the female students. I’m old enough now where I don’t think I’d want to go too much older than myself, lol.

Berserker's avatar

I have a wizard fetish. Truth. Only old ones with big beards though. Harry Potter can suck it.

bunnyslippers's avatar

@Symbeline You want some hairy old dude with a pointy hat and beard to give you his wand?

bunnyslippers's avatar

Well Abra Cadabra to you then.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I’ve been in a relationship with someone twice my age for some time now. It works.

jca's avatar

@Leanne1986: After a few more years, he’ll no longer be twice your age.

OpryLeigh's avatar

Actually, come to think of it, he was twice my age when we got together, he isn’t anymore!! Obviously, in my mind, neither of us has aged in the past 7 years!

wildpotato's avatar

No one I knew, but when I was. a teenager I was obsessed with James Marsters from Buffy. I met him at Comicon a few years ago and learned that not only is he super-nice, he just got married to a chick my age! Dammit. lol

@Symbeline This is for you.

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