(Potentially NSFW) Do adult entertainment workers tell their families and friends what they do?
Of course, there are a million variations, so I’m looking for a more general answer.
The way I see it, there are solitary sex workers (webcam women, free-lance call girls and prostitutes, escorts, etc.) that ply their trade independently.
And then there are sex workers who are part of group operations (film-making, adult photos, phone-in sex line operations from a call center, etc.) where the person is working in or with a number of people.
To what degree do they tell their friends and family what they do?
(I’m not asking for your moral view on what they should or shouldn’t do – I’m asking if there is any knowledge on what they actually do)
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My internal knowledge is limited.
I have a friend who is an exotic dancer. Her family, other than her husband, know where she works, but believe she is a cocktail waitress. Her hubby of course knows everything.
A woman from my hometown strips in a club south of here. She’s upfront about it. When people ask why she tells them how much she makes. They shut up fast. I say good for her.
I wouldn’t – they might ask for a family discount.
As an ex high profile call girl, my family and friends reveled in the money I made, the places I went, the ‘celebs’ I saw. They also had no problems asking me for gifts and loans. When things went bad for me many years later, they were the first to ‘see it coming’. lol
I had a cousin that worked at one of those XXX call centers for awhile. She had no problem telling anyone what she did for a living. She even gave my step-father a sample (nothing sexual; she just showed him how she talked to customers) and made him red as a tomato over the phone. She was shameless and amazing. :)
I say “was” because she passed away a couple of years ago, in case anyone wonders.
Haha….I wouldn’t consider it a career to be proud of no.
“Hey grandma, guess what? I am starring in a new porn flick next week!” lol
@Coloma I’d be pretty proud of bringing home anywhere from $400–1400 per scene and get to be naked the whole time.
And what’s even better is that females make more (for a change!). Men have to break into gay porn to make good money. Gay for pay, boys?
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I’ve told Paul all about my pole-dancing career, as well as my tenure as a crack-whore.
I would sincerely hope they have enough job pride to be willing/wanting to tell their family, although I may expect it may not always be the wisest thing to do. That is… some people may not react very favorably.
I feel it is a lot better than starving or stealing or doing nothing. It’s work, that’s all.
I befriended a sex worker (NO THERE WERE NO BENEFITS) and her family knows what she does. Her father is still upset about it.
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