How long is the typical dry spell for a man? (Details inside) (possibly NSFW).

I don’t feel comfortable saying after hearing your hardships. I’m sorry to hear that, Talljasperman. I hope you get your fix soon :)

This is quite typical for someone who may have a social/neurological disorder.

Are you desiring a relationship? Or do you find you lean asexual? How are you currently going about meeting people?

As for the details section of this question:

Job- I personally think it’s unwise to take on a social job if you’re not typically social. Since politics is a rather social field, maybe you’d consider a job in the political field instead of trying your hand as a politician.

Apartment- Since you have a plan to save up, I’d continue chipping away at that goal.

You may want to look into adult services. Possibly you could meet people via a support or social group.

@SpatzieLover Are you desiring a relationship? Or do you find you lean asexual? How are you currently going about meeting people?

I’m just too picky… I want the superhero girlfriend my own Mary Jane Watson/Sailor Jupiter/Captain Marvel. I got burned in a relationship 12 years ago and I have a look to don’t touch approach to talking to acquaintances. The last time I even considered dating someone I asked her to propose and she said that she likes an old fashioned man… then went off to date several men one after the other.

I will see if I can find a toastmasters in Red Deer.

“I want the superhero girlfriend my own Mary Jane Watson/Sailor Jupiter/Captain Marvel.”

Ok look, I’ve said this a million times, but this time you get details.

Rather than trying to find the right person, consider instead trying to become the right person.

The idea is that during the dry spell, to get your own game on so good that when little miss superhero does come along, that you’ll be ready for her, and she will recognize you as the big mister superhero of her dreams. But if you don’t prepare for her now, then when she does arrive, she won’t recognize you.

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies Great answer. Thank you. Now I feel much better taking care of myself.

Yes @talljasperman. The world would be a much better experience if we all just made a little more effort to take care of ourselves first. Now that you and me are doing our part, perhaps the rest of the fluther slackers will follow suit. Then we infect the world. Then little miss superhero won’t be able to resist you. There will no doubt be a dozen little miss superheros all fighting over you. Prepare yourself. This could get messy.

You’ll be ok bud just stick with your escape plan and focus on bettering yourself with your time. We’ve all had “dry spells” and they all end at some point. Just make the most of your time and don’t dwell on it.

@talljasperman I finaly have an apartment of my own. I still cant have guests (because I live in socail housing) ,but I am getting their.

@talljasperman ive had my apartment for almost a year on December 21 2013. I managed to save $50 this year.

I have my own apartment and am feathering my nest. Learning domestic skills and am getting progress with eating wholesome delicious food. Buying food and clothing instead of wasting $250 a month on frivolous video games and books that I wouldn’t read.