NSFW Have you ever been in a party?

Not a threesome but I’ve been in a foursome once, way back when I was still presenting as female. Predictably it ended with me and the other woman having our fun while our male partners watched. Yes, I would do it again if the opportunity arose.

My husband has been, but it was back in high school, so naturally it was a mess. He said it was really awkward. He was dating one of them (first mistake) and wasn’t allowed to touch the other girl. He did get to watch her give his girlfriend oral, which he said was surprisingly boring. He’s never given me any indication that he’d like to do it again.

When I was younger, about 23, my boyfriend at the time wanted a foursome. I had a friend who was a lesbian, and asked her and she said yes. The other was going to be his male friend, bit wouldn’t turn up until a while later.

Anyway, me and Dawn were naked in bed, the boyfriend was was naked and was sat at the bittom of the bed. Me and the girl were kissing, and she touched my breasts, I was fine with this until she moved her hand lower. It was very feminine, obviously, and I just couln’t go any further. I left. It ruined our friendship and she even moved away after. She wasn’t attractive and who knows what could of happened if she were, maybe I would have felt different, maybe not.
I have offered to do this with my boyfriend now, and he says he doesn’t want me with anyone else, but I would try again if he ever did.

There was once an uncomfortable (for me) sexual interaction with a couple who were my brother’s best friends. They basically undressed me in the back of their car and the wife tried to finger me unsuccessfully and I suppose I played with her boobs. I remember doing it more out of obligation/pity/because ‘this is supposed to be hot, right?’ – all right, so that borders on lack of consent. Later days, in college, I was involved (happily) in several orgies with my friends and I remember it being completely awesome. I’ve never been in a threesome with my current partner but we talk about it every once in awhile and then remember how ridiculous people are and that we don’t have the energy to deal with all their shit and baggage and inability to understand polyamory.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir GA

First time, college age. My girlfriend at the time was curious and one of my female friends was curious. I told them individually that the other was attracted for months leading up.

A couple of drinks, a dark room, I said, let’s put some lesbian porn on. They started a lot quicker than I thought they would. It was wicked cool for like 5 minutes, then I realized I was not really participating. Then it was fun to watch for like 10 minutes. Then I just felt awkward. Then I went downstairs had another drink. Came back up, they must have felt bad for me, cause they tried to bring me in, but I felt like a third wheel, cause like, you kinda feel weird having sex with a girl in front of your girlfriend.

So it is cool, but not as fun as you would think if you are involved emotionally with the people. Lots of potential landmines.

Yes. It was about 1977, I was 18. A friend and I had a fling with her guy friend. It was stupid. lol
Got naked, started fooling around and then, I just sat it out and watched. Boring, awkward, not at all like the fantasies.

Been there, done that, meh. lol

@Simone_De_Beauvoir “and then remember how ridiculous people are and that we don’t have the energy to deal with all their shit and baggage and inability to understand polyamory.”
That’s the main reason we haven’t done it again in nearly 20 years.

Have you ever been in a party Unfortunately, yes.
Can you tell me what it was like? All I will say is I wish I hadn’t done it.
Was it a good experience? I learned from the experience. I learned that fulfilling fantasies often leads to disappointment.