(NSFW) Do you always help him?

The guy couldn’t care less. Personally, that’s one less mistake I have to worry about.

I would love to have a woman do that to me. She could use it to tease me, stimulate different areas on her, or whatever.

I had it done to me in almost every encounter, feels good but when I think about it..its kind of embarrassing. Its like she is thinking, “Man he couldn’t even find the hole…geez”

I’ve never had it done. I’ve always done the navigating, but I think it would be amazing. And it could be part of the foreplay or just play.

Maybe based on your recent confusion about which orifice is available, she’s making sure lol

@Eggie Seriously, as an older guy. This is a do it yourself thing. Even if you are blind drunk, line yourself up. Just be gentle until you find it. If you are going into the wrong place you just move. If you are going into a really wrong place she will let you know right away, and you will both laugh about it later. Seriously dude, give your women folk the illusion of competence until you gain some experience. Women know that you don’t know what the F you are doing but appreciate you for trying to be sexy. Waiting for them every time is like dating a girl.

Knowitall may have just answered your question? Do you have a history of wrong turns?

I’ve always done it. I always put the condom on him, so my hand is already down there. I don’t consider it “helping him,” it’s just something I do.

I usually always guide it. But not in the “you’re heading towards the wrong hole” kind of way. I make it fun.

Not always, but sometimes. Not because anyone’s doing anything ‘wrong’.

We all know what happens when they don’t: Wrong Hole with DJ Lubel, Taryn Southern, and Scott Baio

@DominicX Aw! That’s so sweet. :-)

I often would guide, when I slept with guys.

As a lesbian, while using a strap-on, my partner would sometimes guide. No biggie.

I had a lover that just loved being on top, so she would almost always guide me in as she was placing herself on me. It was marvelous.

I’ve been married for 35 years now, so the way is well known. But if I were footloose and fancy free, I’d be delighted to let the lady steer, knowing where she’s planning to guide it.

Dude, it’s not prehensile. Of course you are going to guide it, or she is. Stop worrying so much!

@KNOWITALL! Lol!

I have always done it. I cannot remember a time when I haven’t put it in. Whenever he’s near, I just slide him in.

@KNOWITALL lol, no I dont have a problem with wrong turns. Its just that most of the girls I been with do it, even with my current girlfriend. I have guided myself in some positions like the missionary and the backshot, but in most occasions, the girl does it. Didnt know why…

@Eggie It’s kind of a welcoming eagerness. Don’t see it as a put-down.

Every sexual partner i’ve had has guided me in, nowt to do with anything other than it just feels right. Anyone making an issue out of it is basically a babbling fool.