Should I stay with my girlfriend?

Run.

Oh, and on-again off-again relationships don’t work. “We broke up and immediately got back together.” How old are you guys? Sounds like high school all over again.

All I have going through my head are movie quotes and memes.

I’m to old for this shit.
Ain’t nobody got time for that.
Save the drama for your mama.

Seriously, though, you don’t need this crap. Go find a nice girl who isn’t obsessed with a convict.

Too old that’s for sure

Break up with her permanently, please. You will lose your mind worrying about what she’s up to, who she’s with, who she’s texting, etc. The break-up pain will hurt for a while, so try to look to the long term and remember that you will be better off in the end. Remind yourself of the bad stuff and when that doesn’t work, look for a healthy distraction.

Oh, and welcome to Fluther!

I do not think that this is going to work as it is long time now and still she is not over her ex. Just try to talk with her and see what she is telling, you can give her a last chance.

You have been ignoring repeated evidence that you are warming her bed as a stand in for her ex.

She has shown you over and over again that:

1. She cares for him still.
2. She lies about her actions. What else has she been lying to you about?
3. She cheats on you with him whenever she wants to.

You are simply providing her with the money to get by in the world and a handy sex partner while she waits around for her ex to get out of jail.

Leave her and go far away!

Bad news. Leave. Even great sex is not worth the crap she is giving you. She’s treating you like crap.

If you have to ask, then even you are having doubts. Time to move on.

NO you should not stay with her sincerely, ex liar and cheater

If a relationship lacks honesty, it is doomed, like it or not. Say goodbye for good.

Stay! If you like being used.

Run and never look back.

I think you already know what you need to do. You just needed reassurance from others that it’s the right choice. Leave. Never look back. Be strong or she’ll try to pull you right back again.

Leave. Permanently. No more getting back together. You are shortchanging yourself by hanging around. You could be using the time to find someone who cares for you.

Say, “Good Bye!”

That’s what you get for trying to date a fuck buddy. Hand her off to the next sucker.

Just breakup with her.

You may love her, whatever that means, but it sounds like you’re having a hard time leaving her because she is so beautiful and you guys have hot sex. And I think that part of you loves the drama.

You may love her, but you do not know her very well. What you do know is that she lies and then tries to blame you for the things that are not working out.

If you didn’t have a child, I might say that you might as well continue to break up and make up with her until the cows come home, but because you do have a child, that child needs to be your first priority, not your sexual fulfillment. You are setting a horrible example for your child, one that suggests that it’s perfectly OK to “hook up” with people you don’t know, stay with people who treat you badly, and run back eagerly to people who you know will hurt you again. Your child will potentially try to bond with this woman, and then be hurt by the fact that she comes and goes at will.

I’m afraid that this whole situation sounds like something out of a high school drama. When you become an adult (doesn’t matter how old you actually are, but when you have a child, you automatically become an adult whether you want to or not) you have to accept adult responsibilities over your personal desires. That means doing the best you can to raise your child in a nurturing and safe environment .

This woman is in love with a dude who is in jail. People don’t end up in jail by accident, it’s because they have done something bad. She loves this dude, and by staying with her, you are showing your child that it’s kind of cool and exciting and normal to have all of this drama playing out, day after day, after day. It’s neither cool, exciting, normal or healthy.

Gain some stability in your life, if not for you, for your child’s sake. Next time you are looking for love, look past the hotness of the woman, and get to know her. Find out what kind of person she is, what is important to her, what her values are, if you are compatible with her, if she wants to make a stable life with you and your son.

Adios! That’s what I would say.