@ZEPHYRA That’s good to know.
It really doesn’t matter to me whether life itself is pointless. I, being an agnostic atheist, don’t think there is a reason to be here, living on this earth in this place and time, but I feel grateful that I am living here on this earth in this place and time.
I think you may suffer from depression if this is how you feel about life, in general.
Even though I’ve got some problems, mostly with not having enough money and worrying about the future, but I do my best not to dwell on the negative. I see beauty and joy and whimsy in every day things. Even with just sitting here on the couch, being able to go on Fluther and have a laugh with friends or find cool and interesting things.
If I go outside, I always have my camera with me, even if I’m just going to the grocery store. The other day I was thrilled to see a bin of Pluots because they’re just so gorgeous.
I find wonderful things to look at and try all over the world wide web. Hence my Pinterest pages, that now number 60 boards. I am interested in all kinds of things from dogs, to cooking, to silly videos, to Japanese culture, and most recently (thanks to our own @gailcalled) Doc Martin.
I am one of those people who never gets bored, although the ugly head of depression sometimes rears its head, but that doesn’t stop me from looking for the wonderful, even if it just resides in this little Pumpkin Kiss or This Face or These Faces or This Recipe.
I think you mentioned in one of your questions awhile back about how to bear day after day after day. I actually like a lot of mundane routine in my life, so having a schedule and knowing what is coming next, even if it’s just sorting the clean laundry is a good thing. I don’t need every day to be like a trip to an amusement park. But I also plan a lot of joyful activities into my life, even if it’s just watching NCIS on TV on Tuesday nights, or planning a camping trip for the family, or driving up to the snow in winter, or making a homemade mushroom pizza for dinner. I am what you would call easily amused, I’m not a demanding person and I don’t expect much, so when delicious little things happen, like seeing a funny comment on one of my Facebook posts from a friend, or getting the chance to rub a dog’s tummy, it lights up my insides.
I have a close friend and a couple of acquaintances who epitomize the “Gloomy Gus” syndrome, and it always pains me (and sometimes make me angry) when they simply dwell on everything that is negative in the world, but never make any attempt to change the situation. Sometimes simply not talking about how awful the world is ad nauseum, actually makes the world not so sucky. I know if makes it less sucky for me. These kinds of people, and you may or may not be one, I don’t know you well enough to know, actually contribute to the suckiness of the world. If you, or they simply cannot or will not see the simple beauty in a lake, or the smile of a baby, and make those things a part of their every day lives, then I have nothing but pity for them.
Why do you think you view life the way you do? You said that it may be the depression talking, which I think is about 99% likely. If you do suffer from depression are you proactive in trying to combat it? Do you see a therapist? Do you take medication? Do you exercise and eat well? Do you read up on the latest information about treatment for depression? I hope so, because it sounds like you aren’t enjoying life at all, and that actually makes me want to cry.
I just want to give you a little Gift and see if this doesn’t make you feel happy, at least for a few minutes.