@gailcalled How can you be so clueless about vocabulary?
Elementary my dear Watson, you are always around to make the correction so I need not think about it; it makes you look good, which in turn lurva you up; and it distracts you from actually answering the question. –Hope that clears it up.
I would not redact anything but some people here have very, very thin skin, as shown how irate they get when comments of what other people said of fat people as if I said it myself….you can lurva up some more now… <wink wink>
@funkdaddy For the sake of argument, let’s draw a comparison to “poor shaming”. There are some parallels that hold up: there are disadvantages to being poor, it’s something you can do something about, it’s relative much like “fat”, (everyone seems to think they have weight to lose, and everyone seems to think they have more money to make), it can be a temporary situation, and it comes with other compromises that you may not think are worth it. It’s just not everyone’s priority to be as rich as possible, to some it is and it’s hard to understand why everyone doesn’t want to strive for what they view as ideal.
THANK YOU, at least you among a few actually took the time to form a thoughtful answer to the question I could follow. Most of what you said I agree. However, I am looking at it from the point if you were poor, (or at least poor by society’s standard) and you did not care, why would someone telling you that you are poor bother you? It is what you are comfortable with and the see it as positive for you. No one will try to steal your car, or glom (better check usage from @gailcalled correct usage or you might become a target for grammer shaming LOL) to you for your money not your personality, etc. You know you don’t have a Ferrari, a mansion with more bathrooms than you can visit in a day, a baby grand in the music room, etc, and you don’t care. IF you get upset because someone is saying you ought to get you a Bentley or you love to like in a cracker box house, then maybe you are not as happy being poor as you make yourself believe you are.
I also don’t mind her picture and think she was truly trying to let people know they’re capable of more than they think while also showing she was proud of her own accomplishments. I’d attribute the response less as a response to “fat shaming” and more to the fact that internet outrage is easy and feels good.
There it is there, I would say that is the ”gold stamp” answer so far. Because people were jealous that she can look that great after three kids (and young ones too) they have to try to tear her down because they can’t or won’t build themselves up; misery loves company.
@livelaughlove21 I’m still waiting on that picture, @Hypocrisy_Central.
And you may wait a bit longer. It is more of an effort to get a pic for you, and maybe others to try to use to define me than it is for anyone asking for a pic to type an answer as good as @funkdaddy. If I can wait to get good answers, a the wait for a pic is no biggie at all.
@KNOWITALL I read your post that you used to be overweight, so hearing you talk so negatively about touching or looking at a fat women is really sad. It seems that you may be projecting your feelings about your ‘old’ self onto others who may or may not have health issues or other factors that aren’t visible. If you truly feel that disgusted, I suggest you talk to your therapist and get rid of that self-loathing.
Would I have more right to speak against fat if I never was fat? No, people would say ”How can you say that when you were never there?” If I were fat or never was, it has no barring on ANYTGHING. That would not make fat people any more healthy, any more considered attractive, unattractive, and comfortable or anything. It has nothing to do with the venomous replies that woman got. Me being fat at one time had nothing to do with anyone else but with me for me. I did not have a like for fat on people before I found myself there; just when I DID find it on me, I was not going to accept it and just live with it, I got rid of it. I know who I am and if I am not comfortable with it physically I know what to do. The same way I did, and continue to do about things I don’t like mentally and spiritually. I need no therapist because I have the One who made the therapist.