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illusionslies's avatar

Do you think women should use their power of sexuality?

Asked by illusionslies (586points) October 23rd, 2013

A woman can make a man do many things just by being sexy. At least, I believe this is true for a lot of men.

Do you think this is right? What’s your opinion on this? Should women use their power over man?

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ucme's avatar

Pat Benatar says no.

Pachy's avatar

Works for me.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

SILENCE OR I KILL YOU!~ ;-) That is a secret we swore as men to keep from women. I do not know what others think, but I have seen it in action; a pretty and sexy woman can get just about ANYTHING she wants from men. I have seen it with friends, at jobs I have been on, bars, campuses, a lot of places. If he wants to have a relationship with him if she uses sex as a hook he is like putty around her finger. If she wants to get a dog and he doesn’t all she has to do is give him a hellacious redacted for three straight days but not letting him touch her for anything else. That fourth day he will deny her NOTHING to get his hands on her. However, if the man is a ”Prettyboy Dog” then the shoe is on the other foot; he can have her dancing like a puppet on a string. Even hot women will stoop for some dog or badboy if he has Casanova looks.

glacial's avatar

Use the power of their sexuality to be sexual? Obviously.

Use the power of their sexuality to manipulate or mislead or otherwise harm others? Obviously not.

Now please stop talking about women as if they are despicable creatures of a different species, and talk about them as if they… just might… be other human beings. Thank you.

johnpowell's avatar

Yeah dude, males in power never use power to get pussy.

The big difference is woman risk getting fired if rejecting the advance and the dude just ends up jerking off into a sock.

Hypocrisy_Central :: I have said it before and you have serious issues with woman. Like you need to see a professional.

Blondesjon's avatar

I think they already do.

Daddy used to say he could never understand why women were so upset all the time. They already had half the money and all the pussy

illusionslies's avatar

@glacial Duh, they are human beings. Nobody says they aren’t.

muppetish's avatar

I think question has several issues bubbling below the surface.

(1) Not all women are sexual. Asexuals exist!
(2) Not all women are sexually interested in men. I doubt any of the lesbians I know would seduce a man for personal gain nor would any of the gay men I know attempt to seduce a woman.
(3) Not all men are attracted to all women, nor vice versa. Just because a woman is “objectively” attractive does not necessarily mean that she has the capacity to seduce any man. Not to mention I doubt anyone would encourage an “unattractive” woman to pursue this method because this would only “work” for someone who is “attractive”, which contains within it a whole other set of issues.

However, plenty of people—and I say people because men, women, transpersons, intersex persons have all done this before—have used sexuality as a means for gains. Is this morally correct? I don’t know. I think it depends on the context of the situation.

What I don’t understand is why the sexuality of women is what always falls under scrutiny. These types of questions are very rarely framed as an inquisition for against male sexuality.

illusionslies's avatar

@muppetish Well If I was to ask the question your way I’d have to write an essay. I think most people get the point. It’s pretty obvious that there are asexuals and lesbians on earth. And lesbians can also use their sexualities to get something for example. The bottom line is, if it is alright and a good advantage.

elbanditoroso's avatar

Why not? It’s an arrow in their quiver, just like intelligence, wit, clean teeth, personality, etc.

It would be foolish to not use every asset that you were given.

AshLeigh's avatar

If a man is shallow enough to do things for a woman only because she is sexy, it’s his fault if he’s being used. He’s allowing it. Encouraging it, even.

JLeslie's avatar

Sure. I can see pros and cons to doing it, but typically I say use what you have. I don’t think men are very manipulated by it anyway. It’s more like a nice perk.

filmfann's avatar

Q: Do you think women should use their power of sexuality?

A: No, and I challenge Auggie, Jeruba, and all the other beautiful women here to convince me otherwise.

Seek's avatar

Meh.

I’m guilty of using a flirty laugh to get a few drinks, or playing the damsel in distress to get something done. But hey, blah blah salary equality and childbearing blah.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

“A woman can make a man do many things just by being sexy.”

A woman cannot make a man do anything. But some women can trick boys into doing some things. Just like some men can trick girls into doing some things.

Blackberry's avatar

I don’t care. I want sex.

:/

ragingloli's avatar

Yes. Power not used is power wasted. Especially on inferior males.
Besides, men are still owed payback for millennia of oppression.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

@johnpowell Hypocrisy_Central :: I have said it before and you have serious issues with woman. Like you need to see a professional.
Should not you be saying that to the guys who were, and maybe are, bamboozled by a pretty woman in a short skirt or low-cut top? I need no therapist unless it is because I see through the facade. I don’t know about where you are at, but many women around here was not raised in a nunnary, rectory or an Amish farm. If they can get what they need by being sexy or even hoochie they do it. Why do they do it? I guess because they find it works more times than not; if the watch isn’t broke, you don’t try to fix it.

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