Why do they hate on me?
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November 8th, 2013
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There is a group about 3 girls that always hate on me! I don’t know why. I never ever hated on them, hurt them, talk trash ‘bout them, said something worse to them or whatever. I just don’t know what I had done. But they always tell me that I’m ugly, that I’m a wanna-be, that I’m damn stupid or that they hope that I’ll broke up soon with my boyfriend, ‘cause he’s too good for me
My friends told me to ignore, but I can’t and I cannot understand why they are doing this and it just hurts :( I know, that you’re not able to know, but maybe you have an idea or what I could do.
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They are jealous of you for your individuality.
Some girls are just mean. They are either jealous of you or maybe they just find you an easy target. Don’t let them bother you. Just ignore them. Show them you have more class.
They are jealous of you. Take it as a compliment. Ignore them and they will get bored. They WANT to get a reaction out of you.
It should be noted that the above phenomenon would never happen on the Internet.
But jealous of WHAT. I think I have nothing what they haven’t…
If they can make you feel smaller, they by comparison will feel “bigger”. It happens all the time. It’s called bullying, and it sucks.
Start now to document what happens. Every single time, document it (who said what when and where). Keep your notebook with this information at home- don’t bring it to school where someone could steal it. If things continue show it to your counselor at school. Tell your folks too.
Am I right in assuming that these are English girls?
If so, then you’re an outsider in their book. Outsiders make obvious targets for packs of insiders like this, especially at your age. It’s an unfortunate feature of human nature.
@BerlinRose When someone is mean to you for no reason, it’s usually because they’re jealous over something. I bet they like your boyfriend and are mad that he’s with you, not one of them.
Teenage girls are evil.
On top of the normal evil you’d have to deal with, you’re a German girl, with only fair English skills, living in England.
There’s probably more than a little prejudice at hand here.
@Smitha not really…
@snowberry I just think about whether that’s necessary…
@thorninmud One of them is from Turkey I think, but born in England, so that could be right
@Valerie111 I don’t know, but there is many show in our relationchip, but everything is possible…
@Seek_Kolinahr definitely unfair, but it seems logical…
There’s certainly an element of German hating, but that’s only the backward thinking, Sun reading neanderthals, fortunately few in number.
No, these just sound like your average teenage bitches behaving in the only way they know how, cowbags from the planet hate.
It’s a very tough situation, because if these girls succeed in marking you as someone who isn’t one of the socially acceptable kids, then others may be afraid of hanging around with you for fear of being rejected themselves.
This would be a great time for you to seek out the company of the kids who are mature enough to see beyond this kind of popularity bullshit. There are certainly a few of these around, and you may already be friends with some of them. These are the people who really matter. Never mind the others.
You already said it. They’re jealous because one of them wants your guy. Don’t give them power over YOUR emotions, just be happy. :)
When they say mean things to you, don’t engage. They are spewing garbage.
If they start writing things to you on the internet , save everything, and start forwarding it with their names to a trusted individual.
People who are insecure in themselves try to mask it by putting other people down. They think if they put others down they elevate themselves. They’re wrong.
@ucme Yeah, I know, but I also don’t think that it’s that. So you might be right.
@thorninmud I don’t think that it’ll come so far, ‘cause there are many people supporting me, but even if it would be like that, it doesn’t matter, ‘cause I’ll go back to Germany in summer. But thank you a lot!
@KNOWITALL You might be right, that’s also one possibility, but I don’t know, ‘cause there are so many guys, also handsome guys, so why they would be jealous of me…
@LuckyGuy okay. They never “talk” to me on the internet, but if they do it, I will save it.
@Judi Okay thank you!
People are strange.
No way to know
I took a lot of shit as a kid so I’m not going to lay down the bullshit “ignore it” speech but I will tell you that, if you can tough it out, it goes away.
Looking back to my years as a teenage girl, I don’t imagine there is any rational reason for the behaviour and although it can be very hard to ignore, especially when you only aged 15, I would try my darndest to do so. Teenage girls can be enormously cruel and bitchy, I know because I did it myself at that age.
@Blondesjon Okay thanks answering
@Adagio yeah honestly I also sometimes hate(d) on people, but not in this extent and I ever have a reason.
@BerlinRose Because young girls tend to obsess on one sometimes. Good luck.
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