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NSFW: Regarding the last person you were intimate with: How long of a time span was there between your first in person meeting and your first sexual encounter?

Asked by MagicalMystery (900points) November 25th, 2013

Regarding the last person you were intimate with, whether it’s your spouse, significant other, boyfriend, girlfriend, hookup, whatever: How long did it take, in number of meetings, from your first date/first meeting until your first sexual encounter?

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KNOWITALL's avatar

A month or so.

tedibear's avatar

Define sexual encounter. Intercourse? “Making out?”

emjay's avatar

Sadly, probably less than three minutes.
Met him online, we talked for a few days. He came over for dinner and a movie and instead we just spent the night in my bedroom. That was two years ago… Been together ever since.
Not exactly the most dignified of first meetings, but hey. We love each other so, whatever.

OneBadApple's avatar

27 years.

She was raised a very strict Catholic, and I am very shy….

livelaughlove21's avatar

I’m going to assume you mean intercourse and not just any “sexual contact” (which could be kissing). I couldn’t tell you the number of meetings because it was a full six months. We met at 17, I was a virgin, he wasn’t, and he waited until I was ready. Six years later, we’ve been married for over a year.

I don’t consider myself all that old fashioned, but I can’t imagine having sex with someone mere days (or hours) after meeting them – especially if I was hoping for something more than a purely sexual relationship.

Unbroken's avatar

More then a year less then two

SadieMartinPaul's avatar

That would be my husband of 22 years. Beyond kissing and holding hands, nothing happened for about 2 months. I was a “nice girl” who wanted to wait, and he respected that.

augustlan's avatar

The time between when I first met my husband (which was in person, we met at work) and our first date was two months. Between first date and first intercourse? Minutes. We’ve been married eight years.

hearkat's avatar

We met in person, as friends, about 2 months after our paths crossed on a social site (like a cross between Instagram and FB, but with a small, intimate community, like here on Fluther). We got together platonically a couple times but then realized that our chemistry and compatibility were too great to pass up, so we decided to become a romantic couple. A week passed between our first official date to our first overnight stay.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Hmm, I don’t know, we made out before we started to date, officially. Sex within weeks.

zenvelo's avatar

I met a woman in person on October 27. Because of travel and other commitments we met again on November 14 and have been together a couple times since. All in all it took us 5 meetings to become very intimate.

Valerie111's avatar

We were friends before we started dating. I guess we had sex after a couple of weeks of being alone together.

Seek's avatar

We met in July of 2005, and were married in July of 2007.

ETpro's avatar

It was after we dated, I romanced her, and we married.

Smitha's avatar

We met on May 15 2002 and got married on November 21 2002.

Lorna's avatar

We met in June. First started flirting in August. Began the relationship on the 24th, and first slept together in the 29th. Been together for 6 years. Married for 5.

cazzie's avatar

1985 met. September 2013 he came into my life again and we fell in love.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Well, after telling him to F-off for three years, I finally let him come to my house. After that it was about…3 hours. I couldn’t get him to stop talking any other way.

downtide's avatar

About eight hours. But we’d already known each other online for two years.

wait, I totally misunderstood the question. That was the last new person I was intimate with.

The last person I was intimate with (my partner) we dated for 2 months before having sex, although we were seeing each other pretty much daily during that time.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I knew my boyfriend for a year and a month before we had sex for the first time. We were definitely what you would call “friends with benefits” for a few months before we both realised that it meant more to both of us. We have been together now for nearly eight years.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

The last encounter was around 190 to 200+/- days; which I know it about 187 days too late for how more than a few do it these days.

CWOTUS's avatar

About an hour. Essentially, the time it took to meet at the airport and then drive to the hotel. We had known each other via online exchanges and phone calls for about two months, I think.

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