If anyone suspects that a member is being deceptive/deceitful in a way that hurts the Fluther community, they can PM me and I’ll look into it. Basically, it comes down to this: We don’t mind if someone embellishes a little, but we won’t allow anyone to hurt this community with their lies. We’ve banned several people for it.
Examples of this kind of behavior:
Pretending to be a doctor: This guy seemed overly involved in certain medical discussions revolving around young girls. He claimed to be a doctor in these discussions, but had claimed to hold other professional titles in other discussions. Concerned members brought it to our attention. I think we found he was claiming 8 different professions (simultaneously), and I know we discovered inappropriate PMs to the most recent young girl who had asked a medical question.
Pretending to be several different people simultaneously, each with a noticeable presence on Fluther, and each with (completely different) fully developed personalities and back stories: (While we allow members to ask/answer questions on a secondary account for anonymity purposes, we don’t allow people to make up elaborate ‘lives’ for those accounts and form active relationships with members under false pretenses.) This one we stumbled onto completely by accident. It turned out that he’d also used his multiple accounts to lurve himself. He was gaming the lurve system and the entire community, too.
There was a guy whose life story just kept getting more and more fantastical, drawing the community in and eventually freaking lots of members out. He was suspected of being a major bullshitter for a long time, but we had no evidence until he posted a picture of his ‘late wife’...and it turned out to be a stock image he’d lifted from the web. When confronted, he admitted it was all a fantasy life. There’s no harm in a little fantasy, I suppose, but this was a huge dramatic story, and caused a lot of upset in the community…all for his own entertainment.
There was a young woman who entered into online romances (serious ones) with several of our male members, using fake names/back stories/pictures. One of the pictures was used twice, under two different names, with two different male members. Concerned friends compared notes, and she was busted. She broke several hearts.