My life:
Living in an apartment with my gay best friend. We have some kind of weird soul connection where we usually seem to know what the other needs at any given time. He likes to bake, which is wonderful because there’s always treats in the fridge.
My roommate’s boyfriend is a freshman, and has a buddy in his year who is just beginning his journey with ulcerative colitis. Been in and out of the hospital since the start of this semester and is newly diagnosed. My roommate’s boyfriend, another friend of ours, and I went to visit the sick friend in the hospital last night. He’s doing a bit better and will probably get out tomorrow. I think he was excited to meet someone who has been in his shoes and can understand his unique struggles. His mom was there and I put her in contact with my mom for support. It feels good to be on this side of the battle, the side where I’m helping other people, not being helped myself.
My roommate’s boyfriend all but officially lives with us, and I’m probably gonna double date with them and the guy I’m newly seeing, this Friday for Valentine’s day.
The guy I’m seeing has been a buddy of mine for about two years now – since my return to school after my surgeries. I didn’t get to know him too well until the past summer when he was in Bar Harbor with me for my study “abroad,” at which point I became very close with him and another mutual friend of ours and we were an inseparable trio. Many hikes and sunsets and unforgettable good times were had.
He’s super smart and interesting and good looking. He’s sweet and thoughtful and kind and has a large diversity of interests like me. He has one leg and that doesn’t slow him down at all, and he always seems to understand me. There’s still a lot of getting to know each other to be had.
Classes are going well and I’m working on my senior project now. I’m a junior, but a cool opportunity came up and I decided to start early. It is challenging but fun. I am gaining some confidence.
I have an internship lined up in Boston for the summer, and so does my guy and some of our mutual friends, so the summer is an exciting prospect.
My life is really, really good.