Oh, I have so much to say about this.
1. “He meets the criteria of a guy I would date”
Criteria?! Do you have a list or something? Yikes. You need to relax on that stuff. The guy you end up falling for may not meet any of that criteria. You can’t pick guys by checking off qualities on your list of “perfect guy” criteria.
2. “I didn’t felt any ‘sparks’ or ‘butterflies’ sort of thing”
Sparks? Butterflies? Okay, stop watching chick flicks and reading romance novels, NOW. This is real life, not a fairy tale.
3. “Is it possible to fall for someone after a longer period of time spent together?”
That’s typically how it’s done. You don’t fall in love with someone as soon as you meet them. Love isn’t instantaneous; it takes time.
You need to ask yourself if you’re attracted to this guy. If you’re not, then you probably won’t be any time soon. And if you’re not attracted to him, then cut him loose now before he gets too attached.
When I met my husband, we were 17 and I had just broken up with my first boyfriend. I was getting attention from the opposite sex for the first time in my life (I was very shy prior to this) and I just wanted to have some fun. I definitely thought he was a good guy and I was attracted to him, but I really didn’t think I wanted to actually date him – maybe just something juvenile like making out. ;) However, he really liked me and wanted to date. I said yes, but I wasn’t too sure about it. It took a good month and then, one afternoon after school, I was driving to his house and I noticed that I felt really nervous to see him. Ahem, them’s the butterflies people talk about I suppose. Yeah, an entire month before I really started to think of him as someone I could be with for awhile. Love didn’t come into the picture for a couple more months after that. Real grown-up love took even longer to develop, since neither of us knew what the hell that meant at our age. Three years later, we got married. Like I said, this is real life, not a fairy tale. You may not be head over heels (or heels over head, for some people) for a guy within a week of being around him. Real feelings for another person develop over time.
Only you know how you feel. If you have no interest in dating him, don’t date him! You’re obviously very young and have plenty of time to date around if that’s what you want to do. No need to freak out that you’re not madly in love with this guy.