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What do you do when someone breaks your heart and then makes you feel better then hurt you again?

Asked by aroyalandarebel (21points) April 8th, 2014

My life is horrible.

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KNOWITALL's avatar

Don’t keep giving them the chance to continue. It also depends on the level of hurt though.

josie's avatar

Wake up

SnoopyGirl's avatar

I’m not sure what happened and how painful it is what you are going through. I know if someone broke my heart and then came back to try and fix it, I would give them another chance. But, if he broke my heart again shortly after the first episode…I would have to let that person go. I want to be with someone that knows what they want. I don’t want someone who is wishy washy and cares about me one moment and then doesn’t the next day. I couldn’t do that. Think of yourself and what you deserve! No one deserves to continue to have their heart broken time and again from the same person. Take care of yourself first. Sometimes taking a step back from the situation can help you see what you really want in your life.

Berserker's avatar

I’m all for giving chances, but if they make a habit or game of messing me up, I’d shaft em quick enough. And by chances, I mean like, one.

Winter_Pariah's avatar

Walk away… or feed them their pet cat and say it’s chicken and then walk away.

Yep, I was one messed up adolescent boy… and preteen… and child…

anniereborn's avatar

Depends on the relationship. Is this a parent? A friend? A romantic relationship?

Smitha's avatar

If I were you I’d begin to move on ASAP! Always remember there’s a load of help out there to help you deal with problems. Don’t give up!

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