It is important to have an accurate perception of what is “normal”
Like your son and Ebenezer I am thoughtful- and an introvert. Unlike common
perception being an introvert is NOT a bad thing at all. It is simply
the way we respond and recharge. We are NOT antisocial as many extroverts think.
You may find the book “The Introvert Advantage- How to survive in an Extrovert World” very helpful when raising your son.
Here are some quotes from the book:
“Introverts are thoughtful, imaginative, tend to work independently and think outside the box. Introverts are keen observers and sensitive listeners. Introverts prefer to be involved intimately with one person and are often drawn to life’s spiritual side. Introverts are not antisocial, shy, or aloof.
But they are in the minority—outnumbered by extroverts three-to-one in a culture that values being an “Outie” over an “Innie”. And they are easily misunderstood, as often by themselves as by their extroverted families and loved ones.”
Introverts take in information and need quiet time to think. Extroverts need social input and stimulus.
There is nothing wrong with your son- read the book link See if he fits.
Just in case you still think that being an introvert is a bad thing here are some folks that are introverts:
* Abraham Lincoln, sixteenth president
* Sir Alfred Hitchcock, film director
* Michael Jordan, basketball player and celebrity
* Thomas Edison, inventor
* Grace Kelly, actress
* Gwyneth Paltrow, actress
* David Duvall, golfer
* Laura Bush, first lady
* Bill Gates, software pioneer
* Candice Bergen, actress
* Clint Eastwood, actor/director
* Charles Schulz, Peanuts cartoonist
* Steve Martin, comedian/actor/writer
* Harrison Ford, actor
* Michele Pfeiffer, actress
* Katherine Graham, late owner of Washington Post, author
* Joan Allen
* Ellen Burstyn
* Glenn Close
* Clint Eastwood
* Tom Hanks
* Helen Hunt
* Diane Keaton
* Jessica Lange
* Laura Linney
* Julia Roberts
* Meg Ryan
* Meryl Streep
* Noah Wyle
As you can see- being an introvert does not hinder success.