@chyna If a man boinks like bunnies within the first few hours of meeting a woman, is he a slut? Is that what you are asking?
@dappled_leaves Imagine a man giving up his “cookies” so easily… simply terrible! Who could respect him after that?
Who? The guys in the pub, the gym, the bowling team, the classroom, etc. etc.
@janbb WTF are cookies anyway?
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@stanleybmanly In the end, if there’s physical attraction there, it’s better to get the cookie sampling underway. Get the mystery and the coy silliness out of the way.
Where do you build or go if you get it all straight off the bat? It is like what do you give an athlete if the moment they step on the field you give them All American, the Heisman, MVP, and the championship after one game; what else is there to shoot for? What mystique is there to bounce off if he explores her body like Lewis and Clark the first night or under half a week?
@LornaLove I have in my life met people who bonked on the first date and ended up married, it could be that they realize that this person (personality) is someone they do want to be with.
Of all of the people you know boinked on the 1st date or less than a week, those who did that and ended up at the alter as oppose to those who didn’t who had the larger numbers?
@Crazydawg If this woman was truly out to find a long term marriage material man to spend the rest of her life with and she gave up her Mrs Fields cookies on the first date or shortly thereafter, she IMO is merely expressing her excitement and enthusiasm for meeting Mr. Right and these moments are a 2 way street where he his acknowledging is approval of allowing future Mrs.
Since this is not the modus operandi for all women who boink on the 1st night, or less than a week, how is he to know HE has been chosen as ‘Mr. Right’? What if she chose him as ‘Mr. Right’ but he don’t care to be ‘Mr. Right’? Then she would have gave it up and still not gotten any closer to the relationship she wanted.
@cazzie Another really pointless question.
Where have you been? Do you not know, have you not seen, that is the nature of most Fluther questions. They are forced to be so open-ended that no concrete answer can ever be extrapolated but it is fun to merely talk about the solution unobtainable. If it were presented in a way for there to actually be closest to a concrete answer the question would have evaporated and you would not even have had the chance to put in a quip about it.