What is the best part of sex? (NSFW)

The spunk pumping bit

The cigarette when it’s over.

Clawing at the curvature of his spine.

#1 The intimacy.
#2 The contractions.

I’ve been thinking about this and, Yep, I’m sticking with that order.
#1 without #2 is better than #2 without #1.

Flushing

For me it’s the moment your anticipation is realized at first penetration.

I concur with @LuckyGuy.

i remember one conversation when I was a freshman in college and one of the older guys said,“when she lifts her hips so you can slide off her panties, you know you’re getting laid, and if it wasn’t for pleasing her, you might as well come then.”

The part that is happening tied with what is going to happen next.

The sex part.

First entry.

I checked three times that I typed the r in “first”

Different for each person – it depends on what she brings to the equation. For some. it’s afterwards when we cuddle. For others, it’s moment of orgasm. For some, it’s when I get in the car to go home.

Actually getting it.

Orgasm.

Answer from someone who hasn’t had real sex.

Sharing kinky thoughts, that’s so hot.

I’m with @Dan_Lyons and, being a female, ooh baby, the BEST is that nice curved penis that hits the G spot for a flood of fantastic feeling, right up there with amazing oral.

I’d have to say the release when I reach orgasm. I always imagine it as a bit like reaching the top of a roller coaster and then the tension releases as the feelings flow through my body.

Once back in 74 I found my girlfriend’s G spot @Coloma. I have never forgotten her thrill at that nor have I ever forgotten where it is!

People say “intimacy” so much that the word becomes a cliche and loses its meaning. But that really is the best thing. When you’re with someone and really care about each other, sex amplifies your feelings of connectedness and your mental/emotional connection amplifies the pleasure. It becomes this wonderful feedback loop.

So for instance, kissing their shoulder during sex isn’t just that action. It’s kissing the shoulder of your favorite person on earth at that moment. That might feel nice physically, but the affection behind it matters just as much, and you feel both at once. And that prompts them to do something else to you, etc etc etc, until you’re in your own little bubble of sensation and affection.

That truly is a best-case scenario, and it’s rare. It takes kind of a leap of faith to feel that way about someone. If you’re wrong about them, what a disappointment. Or it could be a flash in the pan.

Without the intimacy, it’s kind of like, “oh, hey, cool. I’m getting laid. I wonder what’s on TV right now?” Like, my enthusiasm is maybe a 6 on a scale of 1–10.

My very favorite part is the AGAIN.

Wait, @Unbroken, tieing what to what?!? ;-P

For me, it is the moment when she passes the point of no return. Fingers clenching, eyes widening, back arching, hips bucking. A flurry of convulsions and contractions. The most beautiful loss of control.

@Jonesn4burgers I meant what is happening in the moment, as well as the anticipation of what is coming next… It’s not all about the destination. Though it helps when the destination is fantastic.

But I suppose I should amend that statement. Sometimes when we’re lucky the chemistry makes my opinion true. But its not always there. And really if we are talking specific partners I can’t generalize what part I typically enjoy the most.

@Unbroken, I knew, but I just had to mess with you. Suggesting tieing stuff on a question like this was begging for a ribbing.

Lol too true @Jonesn4burgers I must have been really dry to not see the double entendre.

Foreplay and the fact all of your senses are on overdrive…. So intense

Um, what isn’t good?

Exploring her like Lewis and Clark on the wedding night.

the night that lewis and clark wed?

exploring each others’ sacajaweas?

^ No….as they did when they explored the places they traveled off to.

totally together then

I would say that the connection you have with someone during sex is the greatest part of sex, and I truly live sex’s ability to drown everything else out and your whole world is focused on what you are doing in that exact moment.