About an hour ago, I got bullied and abused, and at Trader Joe’s of all places! And, there was nothing I could really do to defend myself.
I was standing near the door, waiting for my turn to get a shopping cart. I felt a very insistent hand on my back, so I thought that I must have been spotted by a friend saying “hello.” No, it was a huge man – maybe 6’5” – who proceeded to push me out of his way. As he walked past, I said “Excuse me?” very loudly.
Then, he walked back out again, facing me. I foolishly and childishly hit him with my shopping cart. A few minutes later, inside the store, he walked past and said, “That wasn’t very ladylike.” I called at his retreating back, “You DON’T touch people. You DO NOT put your hands on strangers.” He yelled, “You don’t stand in someone’s way.”
Fortunately, a store employee and two customers witnessed the entire incident. The employee went to get the manager. The employee had already told the manager what happened, but she also listened to what I had to say. Then, she shadowed the man, step-by-step, while he did his shopping, to make sure that he wouldn’t cause any more troubles.
Yeesh. The guy did make a beeline to the alcohol department, and I’m guessing that booze was at the root of his problems.
Where was my big, tough husband when I really needed him? He would have knocked the man flat on his back. (Oh, yeah…Paul was at work, earning a living and supporting us!)