Is this cyberbullying?

While this doesn’t exactly answer your question, why not report these actions to the moderators of said sites? I don’t believe any reputable site would allow for that sort of behavior from one of it’s users.

This is absolutely cyber bullying! If she is doing stuff IRL too, then you have a stalking charge too, at the very least. Have you attempted to get a restraining order?

She is in another state so I cant get a restraining order against her, unfortunately.

We tried reporting it but a lot is done anonymously so there is nothing moderators can do.

@Kairi What sites specifically are you talking about? Why is it anonymous?

Facebook, tumblr, fanfiction.net

She doesn’t log into accounts for fanfiction.net and her facebook accounts don’t have her name and are fake.

@Kairi It shouldn’t matter really. Unless she really knows what she is doing, she is still posting from the same IP. This is something that can be easily blocked. I don’t know if these sites do this sort of thing as I don’t use them, but I don’t see any real reason why they wouldn’t if you report abuse and show proof of it.

Some of them can but she is internet stalking me so she’ll just follow me elsewhere and use different computers to do so

Yes. This is cyber-bullying and I don’t know who told you differently. She is making direct threats to you.

However, in order to bolster your case, you need to keep printouts of each and every threat.

Let’s face it, there are only so many computers a person can CONVENIENTLY have access to. And chances are she is doing most of it from her own IP address.

Since she has stolen your property, and because of the threats, you have every right to go to law enforcement.

But you need to be persistent and accurate in documenting EVERYTHING.

And don’t reply to any of her efforts to goad you. That just gives her more satisfaction and makes you look immature.

Ignore her, cut her off on Facebook and wherever else you can block her.

It won’t necessarily be easy but of can be done. And all it takes is for her to slip up and then you canbalso take her to civil court.

Definitely look into getting a restraining order. It doesn’t matter what state she is in. It matters what state you are in.

I can’t block her because it’s mostly anonymous, but I don’t reply to it anyway. Someone else that reviews my stuff offered a review with words of encouragement in it and calling her a “disgusting” reviewer that i shouldnt pay any mind to, but that’s the only reply that has been made. The lead admin on one site blocked her IP address for me once I told him what was going on.

I’m getting printouts of both my stuff and stuff my boyfriend has accumulated, and we are looking into reopening the case against her for the theft (he closed it because she tricked him into thinking she would give it back if he dropped charges. Im teying to get gim to stop answering another friend on a three way facebook convo between him, his friend, and a fake account made by the stalker, but he doesn’t seem to listen.

After she called and threatened to kill me, the police refused to help, said I had no proof it was her cuz it was a blocked number, and said that because she us in another state, I am overreacting and needed to ignore it. I haven’t gone back to the police since because they simply refuse to do anything. I was directed to the D.A. of my county by a coworker and to a trooper he personally knows that may be willing to at least give me advice, so those are my next steps after this weekend (I work 16 hour shifts Saturday and Sunday so I have to wait)

Even if she is using fake names, moderators on sites can mod the insults off, by deleting them.

I can do the same but I’d lose the proof if I did so