I am late to this thread (as usual).
I learned to drive at 18 on a manual. My parents’ cars were only manual, so if I wanted to learn to drive on their cars and possibly drive their cars, I had no choice. That was in the early 80’s. My first car was a manual Honda Civic. My mom told me “if you ever have to pay to replace an automatic transmission, you’ll understand.” I also figured it’s good to know how to drive manual, because if I’m ever in a situation where there’s only a manual available, I can drive it.
I was not taught to shift by speed, necessarily, but by speed and how the car felt. I didn’t use the tachometer. When I felt the car rev, I shifted. I have a friend who, along with her hubby, own manual transmission cars and he taught her to shift way too low. As a result, they have had to replace a few clutches. She’d be barely out of her driveway and already in 3rd gear. The car would feel weak but no, she was doing 30 and so 3rd was what she thought was correct.
In my years of car buying and owning, I’ve switched to automatic. I can tell you I now have a Honda Civic that I bought new in 2008 that now has over 195k miles on it. I have never had to replace an automatic tranny yet.
I wish I could say I drive for the experience. I drive at least 45 minutes each way to work, and my main goal is to get there quickly and painlessly.
Still to this day, when I drive manual transmission, I don’t think about it any more than I think about driving the automatic. It’s effortless.
I think calling people who prefer automatic “lazy and stupid” is making an assumption. @SQUEEKY2, it seems every piece of evidence that has been presented here to the contrary of “lazy and stupid” (for example, all of @LuckyGuy‘s and @Buttonstc‘s examples of why auto makers are phasing out manuals) has been argued and refuted by you. You seem stuck on your opinion of “lazy and stupid.”
If the difference in MPG is marginal, and as the baby boomers get older, and as technology improves, we’ll likely see less manuals available, even with special order. Not everyone wants to drive for an enthralling experience. Some of us just want to get there.