Wellll… I was “fired” by my last doctor.
Out of the blue, and for no reason that I’m aware of. I received a letter in regular mail (in a hand-written envelope), which was a copy of a mail sent (apparently) by “registered mail” six months earlier… to my name, but at a completely different address, and one where I have never lived or even visited. The letter copy in the hand-written envelope had been laser-printed (that is, from a computer), and contained the incorrect address that would have been used for the first letter. (Obviously, I had never seen the letter that was addressed “to me” six months earlier.) The letter had some kind of boilerplate that amounted to “difference of opinion”, which is utter nonsense, because we never had any discussion to amount to a difference of opinion. So it’s either a made-up “reason” ... or sent to the wrong person.
I thought about that for awhile.
I came to the conclusion that if the doctor had such a serious problem with me that she felt she could no longer see me (and I had only seen her once or twice, anyway, after my prior physician moved to a different part of the country a year or so earlier), and that she couldn’t just talk to me first, to at least let me know what was wrong or what she had in mind, then that was a “professional relationship” that I didn’t want in any case. So if the doctor was right in addressing me with the discharge, and had reasons for not wanting to handle my care, then I would accept that without further discussion.
Second, if the intent to discharge from care was really meant for someone else, who actually resided at the address where the letter was first addressed, but it was sent “to me” (twice, and with a six-month gap between failed the failed delivery and the actual one – and the follow-up was so shoddy), then their office is screwed up beyond my comprehension and acceptance (in addition to sending a letter with no monetary value by “registered mail” – which is ridiculous and unnecessary). They cannot be trusted to do normal business correctly. In that case, I will have been saved from future, possibly serious mistakes by this administrative mistake, and I accept the discharge.
So it hardly matters what is on the chart; it’s very likely to be an error, or even someone else’s information. And since my health is generally good, and there are no chronic conditions for which I need a continuing medical history, I’ll start fresh with my next doctor and not even request the file to be forwarded. So it’s all good… except now I haven’t had a physician for about a year, and it’s hard to find one in this town who is accepting new patients. And I absolutely will not attempt to return to the practice that “fired” me – which is the largest and most convenient one in town, dammit.