Does he like me?
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September 5th, 2014
So I met a guy 3 years ago in college and he always stared at me whenever I walked into class. He would always have a yearning look on his face. Once he told me that I had pretty hair and smiled really big. In 2013 I took a prep class and he was in my class. He would always park next to me. Once I was on the phone in my car and I looked to my right and he was staring at me with that same look. That fall I volunteered at an organization he created with his friends and at the board meeting he constantly stared at me even while talking to other people. He introduced me to his friends as “Hey I want you to meet April that Ive told you about.” Later that night on twitter he posted: I wish I could shut off these feelings. This semester he ended up in one of my classes. On the first day of class when I sat down I heard someone say “Hi April how are you?” I turned around and it was him with that yearning look. He always sits behind me.
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Starting to sound creepy! He may be obsessed with you. Don’t lead him on if you are not interested.
It sounds like he might, but until / unless he makes some sort of a move to confirm it, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time thinking about it.
Goo-goo eyes do not a relationship make.
You mentioned that volunteered for his organization. Is there some way that the two of you can speak to each other without going on a date? That way you could learn a little bit about each other. If you could establish a casual acquaintanceship, it should get him past the staring stage.
A little creepy, but, yes, he likes you. He may have some self-esteem issues that keeps him from asking you out.
Take the little bull by the horns girl, ASK him out, see what happens!
Guessing games are a waste of time and that “yearning” look could be gas.
I think he’s just exceedingly shy.
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Yeah, I’d say he likes you. He would probably love to wear your skin like a coat.
Creep alert.
I was instantly reminded of Edward from Twilight.
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@cheebdragon I didn’t see your answer before it was modded. But this actually seems like a pretty standard question for general? The OP is looking for answers specific to her problem, rather than open-endedly asking people to share their thoughts. Evidence here points to the guy being a creepy stalker. It seems pretty normal to ask for a second opinion. Like, “am I crazy, or is this kind of weird?”
She didn’t ask if it was creepy, she asked if he liked her. The tag for the question is “dating” and at no point in the question does she mention him stalking her or doing anything that makes her feel uncomfortable. Suggesting that the guy is a creep is an opinion and not an actual answer to the question.
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