Is this weird for a funeral speech?

Asked by hug_of_war (10735

) September 16th, 2014

As you probably know, my best friend killed himself recently and at the funeral I am going to say something, at that part where they ask if anyone has any words. I’ve written down a small speech. It’s in 2nd person, addressing my dear friend directly. Is that weird? I have two speeches, but I prefer the one where I’m just talking to him, not to the crowd directly.

But I don’t want it to be too weird, but I believe in the afterlife, that he can hear me still, and that his presence will always be there.

*PS, his family already knows I’ll be speaking even if it’s not a formal thing

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Not weird at all. I think it’s a wonderful idea.

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Not weird; it’s sometimes done. Sounds lovely and touching.

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Follow your heart. Anything said at a funeral should be from the heart and what you plan sounds ideal. I don’t think it’s weird at all.

If there is someone there who doesn’t understand, so what? Your words are meant for the benefit of your friend and his family and that’s the most important consideration.

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