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Is he interested?

Asked by OctoberMoon81 (32points) September 18th, 2014

I’ve been talking to someone I met on a forum about six months ago, and we’ve been emailing back and forth on a fairly regular basis.
As a matter of fact, we’ve been exchanging photos as well (nothing sexual). A majority of the photos are selfies, or places he’s going, or things that he’s doing.
He’s aware of my former weight problem, but had mentioned that he thinks that I’m attractive(and had gone into great detail about the features he adores), along with being smart and strong – adding that I’ll have a bright future ahead with tons of suitors. He’s also mentioned that I’ve inspired him to work out as well, and keeps me updated on his progress and what he’s doing (I’ve recently gotten into body building). We haven’t exchanged numbers yet, but he had added me on Skype – we’ve messaged each other there a couple of times. He’s been nothing but encouraging, and very kind. Not to mention a playful joke or picture every once in a while (He even posed in a certain way because I said I liked it). We’ve talked about meeting in a roundabout way, but nothing is set in stone.

Would I be wrong in thinking that maybe, just maybe, this person might be slightly interested? Our am I deluding myself?

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Mimishu1995's avatar

He sounds interesting. But you can’t be sure by now since you haven’t met him in real life. You two just exchange information on the net and you know, people can fake a lot of things on the net.

dappled_leaves's avatar

How old are you? How old is he?

OctoberMoon81's avatar

We’re both in our late thirties.

dappled_leaves's avatar

Oh good. Then, yeah, it sounds like he might be interested. He may just be looking for a friend, but I would be cautiously optimistic.

rojo's avatar

Like @dappled_leaves advises, be cautiously optimistic but be don’t be shocked if he is just interested in an internet relationship. Sometimes it is nice to have someone to talk to and joke around with and have no other complicating factors to be concerned about.

OctoberMoon81's avatar

Definitely agreed. If anything, at least I got a new friend out of the deal. :)

jca's avatar

He may be interested but he also may be married. Proceed with caution. Do you know for a fact he is not with a significant other?

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