Any recommendations for good websites or other ways to get an online friend or a pen pal?

If you Google “gay youth support groups” you should (if they are not blocked in China) get a number of web sites that will be helpful to you. On some of them, you may find people to chat with. Here’s one site from the UK that looks very friendly and useful.

Fluther has a ton of Jellies that you can talk to. I found a ton of answers and formed a ton of opinions just by Fluthering. Try going into the chatroom.
You said you were moving to a different country right? If you go to a postsecondary institution, there is a good chance it will have a support group.

@janbb Thanks. I like that site a lot!

Oh, I know the feeling of being alone and feeling older than my years so well. Don’t get disheartened… Fluther is here! Indeed during my most lonely period in my life, Fluther rescued me… But some support groups would be good too. Nothing like good old human interaction! Where are you from? x

@nebule Thanks! I’m in China, and heading to USA for master degree.

@wsxwh111 Wow that’s very brave :)