Is it so bad to enjoy carrying women?

Carry them to where? Just pick them up and then put them down?

It’s only bad if you do it against their will. However, if you ask politely, and they agree, then sure. Of course, in the asking, you do risk being seen as strange or creepy. It is, after all, an odd request and a bit of a fetish. Just be sure to be super polite and not at all pushy.

Well, I’ve certainly heard stranger but that doesn’t mean most women are going to be wildly enthused about it.

It basically sounds like a fetish and most women are not really comfortable indulging a man’s fetish absent a real relationship. Why is this? Because if there is no real dimension to the relationship, they basically feel used.

Nobody likes that. There is no reciprocity. So that’s the way it would be perceived as “bad”. It’s the using people like an object which is the bad part.

However, if this request of yours is presented later on in the relationship in kind of a playful way, then there shouldn’t be much of a problem. It just becomes a regular part of foreplay.

But you do need to develop a full relationship instead of expecting a bunch of relative strangers to indulge you in this. That would be bad because it’s not at all realistic.

Your desire may be slightly odd (or different) but it’s not bad in and of itself. It’s how you present it to someone and whether you’re just using them to get your jollies. That’s just not cool and will get you a lot of rejection.

So, learn how to develop genuine mutual relationships and don’t just be using people and things should be fine.

It’s not “bad,” but if you asked if you could pick me up and carry me, I’d probably find it pretty creepy. And your explanation wouldn’t make it any less creepy. Picking up your girlfriend or even close friend is one thing – asking female acquaintances or random women sounds if you can pick them up is pretty weird. Most of us have a personal bubble that people should avoid invading.

What an odd but delightful obsession. First of all, the fact that you can lift the average woman is worthy of note. I think I can understand, since nothing compares to the feel of a woman in my embrace. Just inhaling them in the process. It’s like a world of wonderful and limitless desserts!