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jtvoar16's avatar

Need spiritual help.

Asked by jtvoar16 (2176points) July 11th, 2008

I have a question about Wicca, or rather Paganism? OK, I am not sure exactly what category my question falls under, let’s just say, “Alternative Thought.”

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone here on the collective knows of a chat-room, or forum or some other place I can go to talk with other “Alternative Thought” people. I am so screwed up right now I need other people to talk too. I just need an outlet that is something else besides my best friend.

Wow, that sounds really emo. I suppose to a point it is. I am so lost at this point.

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wildflower's avatar

Considering some views expressed on Fluther, this might be as good a place as any to seek answers. Unless you’re after some Wicca-specific expertise, which I’m not sure is represented on Fluther (might be, I just haven’t seen it yet).

damien's avatar

How would a pagan or wiccan (?!) be able to help you any differently than anyone else?

Knotmyday's avatar

Try here.

There are a lot of different traditions represented on the site; not just Wiccan.

tinyfaery's avatar

Here is another one.

Knotmyday's avatar

nice, Tiny!

@damien, is there any particular reason why a Wiccan practitioner would be any less empathetic and helpful than any other?

damien's avatar

@Knotmyday, no, that’s exactly my point. I don’t understand (given the explanation of “I am so screwed up right now I need other people to talk too. I just need an outlet that is something else besides my best friend.”) why a wiccan or pagan would be able to offer any more useful or empathetic advice than any other person, of any race or creed.

wildflower's avatar

I agree with damien – at least kind of. I’m also a bit puzzled by what exactly it is that jtvoar is looking to talk to someone about and without knowing that, it’s hard to see why wicca or pagan rather than any old understanding person….

tinyfaery's avatar

It does say she needs spiritual help. She wants someone who knows about her religion.

wildflower's avatar

paganism is fairly wide concept…

[edit]: and if it is information about wicca he/she is looking for, there’s a good chance someone on here might be able to help find that information.

damien's avatar

Yeah, I’ve had a few drinks and so am struggling to make my point. I’m not saying a wiccan or pagan couldn’t help or would be any less useful than anyone else, I just don’t understand why a pagan or wiccan is being called for.

Knotmyday's avatar

To me, and perhaps I’m wrong, it would appear that he/she needs to speak to someone with whom he/she can relate.

damien's avatar

Couldn’t agree more. But that’s why I can’t understand logging onto a site which has potentially thousands of like-minded people and then asking for another resource.

I’ll stop now because I know I’m helping to lead this waaaay off subject and that debating this is absolutely no help to jtvoar16, but I guess I’m just trying to say (in some odd, drunken way) to jtvoar16 that there’s more people which will probably see things on his/her level than he/she might expect.

Knotmyday's avatar

Ok, I see now.

In specific cases, though, insight might be better gained from a less inclusive community.
While I’m not a subject-matter expert per se, I still know where to find people who are.

I getcha. ;^)

marinelife's avatar

This site has lots of information. It asks that members be 18, though. There really are many options for you. Here is another.

Please post again and let us know how you are doing.

MissAnthrope's avatar

I want to thank Knotmyday, tinyfaery, and Marina for the great links, which I will bookmark for my own use.

I hate to point this out, but people come here looking for information and we often reply to answers with links to other places.. so how is this any different? :)

I don’t get what’s so hard to understand about wanting to talk spirituality or faith with other people who share your beliefs. I mean, there’s Christian everything! Christian dating services, debt consolidation, you name it, there’s a Christian whatever it is. I laugh sometimes because it seems a bit silly, but obviously there’s a real human desire to connect with people who believe what you do.

wildflower's avatar

@Alena
My point was not to discourage listing other resources, but to encourage him/her to post the question(s) in question here as the knowledge just might be within the collective somewhere…

MissAnthrope's avatar

@wildflower – I mean this with no snarkiness or anything, but the question was asking for Pagan/Wiccan resources (chatrooms and forums). I understand what you’re saying and you’re right in a sense, but it sounds like jtvoar16 just wants a place to talk about whatever spiritual issues have come up, in a space full of Pagan/Wiccan people. I completely understand this desire, so I think I also understand why they wouldn’t post their dilemma here, as you can’t control who answers, plus I’ve read moderators directing chat-like discussions here to the chatroom.

jtvoar16's avatar

Wow. I didn’t think I would get this many answers! Thank you everyone!

marinelife's avatar

@jtvoar16 Was this the kind of help you were looking for?

jtvoar16's avatar

sorry for the dumb respounce. I was on my iPhone and didn’t have time to write a good response. I just wanted you guys to know your advice helped and the sites did too.

The problem is a very personal one and would rather not talk about it here, mainly because I have yet taken the time to read Fluther’s policies on stuff like this. I see flutter as the guy who refers you to the docter, not the docter.

But, again, thanks to all of you!

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