I still cant get the upgrade to 2.0. I try but it wants to take 5 to 6 hours and times out. Should I just wait till tomorow?

Yes.

where are you downloading it from (URL) from apple? I need to know cuz I can’t find where to get it.

Via iTunes when you connect your iPhone for synching & Check for Update.

Is it out for iPod touch yet?

I’m waiting until after the weekend, and even then will likely do it in the wee hours when most traffic is down. I also want to copy all of my pictures first, just in case.

it’s slow because the rest of the known universe (22 countries any way) are also trying to download it or activate their new iPhone (assuming they managed to get one).

I finally got it up and running and it is wicked. I love it so far, except that I havent figured out the search contacts thing. Anyone know about that? I got it started downloading at 3 am and fonally synced at 6 am. Whew!