How do I know if my crush likes me?
So one night we were at my aunts house and out of the blu he just puts his arm over me. Then later on he grabs my hand and holds it for awhile. But then later that night he hold my hand again while we watched the fault in our stars. After all of the happened he was texting my cousin that was in the same room as us and was saying that he didn’t want it to be anything but I just think he doesn’t want anyone to know he likes me if he really does or not. But he could’ve played me too. Was he playing me? Or does he really like me but doesn’t want to tell anyone the truth? I’m lost if he didn’t like me then why would he do those things? Someone please help.
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Sounds like he likes you. But the only way to find out is to ask him. Be brave, faint hearts never win because they never find out.
I agree that the only way to find out is to ask him. We can’t possibly guess the answer. But, my question to you is: why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to admit he likes you? What’s his problem?
Boys like sex. They like touching girls. Or he could be too shy to say. The only way to tell is if you proceed assuming he does like you until he tells you face to face that he doesn’t. Ask him our for coffee or soda or a milkshake. No more touching until you are sure he is dating material.
How old are you?
I agree with the above 3 responses. Ask him, why would you want to be with someone who wants to keep it a secret, and watch out that he just wants sex. (That sums up the top 3).
He is a boy playing at being a bigger boy. He is finding out what he can talk you into, what will give him an erection, and, is he gay. You were handy.
LOL…he could be playing you.. who knows.
I think you should just take it really slow.
Some guys are just looking for fun.
If they sense that you like them… they will try to see how far they can get.
I remember I met a guy once that was very flirtatious. I swear he liked the girl he was flirting with. One day he told me he was just trying to see how far he can get.
He told me some guys are like that. IT is part of practicing how good they are at the game.. LOL
I think to protect your ego you shouldn’t ask him anything.
Let him come to you.
If a guy really likes you he will let you know. Let him come to you.
NO matter how much times change that is the best rule to stick to LOL.
Be friendly and approachable but don’t allow him to get too freaky with you unless he makes it publicly clear that you guys are in a relationship.
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