Homeless tips and tricks?
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micchon (
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January 23rd, 2015
I hate my life. My father is an asshole and my boyfriend doesn’t love me anymore. My father didn’t want me to go to college anymore because I made him mad because I decided a little bit for myself, so I guess I’ll stop going to college. I’m almost 20 but my father don’t want me to learn how to decide for myself. I lost all my friends like money. I want to disappear or go to a place I don’t know and just die there because maybe that’s what I deserve or maybe just become a homeless. Maybe I will just be a homeless. What are some tips and tricks on how to be homeless, like where could I take a shower for free, drinnk water for free, and survive with bitcoins?
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How about taking on the responsibilities of being an adult and getting a job and a place to live? Then you can pay your own way, make your own decisions, and go back to school.
Yes – your question sounds more like an emotional rant than a plan. Ranting is a fine way to vent – now start planning. Where can you work? Who can you move in with (not the bad boyfriend)? Why are you losing your friends? At 20 it’s time to start taking hold of your own life.
It sounds like you are really stressed at the moment. Do not do anything or make decisions while your mind is clouded by frustration or anger.
It might help if we had an idea where you live. What country or state are you in? The answers will be different for different regions.
For now, please don’t do anything that might hurt you down the road.
Breathe… just… breathe…
Being homeless is no good. Extremely hard to dig out of that hole. Go with the above advices, and put yourself on a good path.
@syz I hope I could do get a job, but my parents don’t trust me. They plan everything for me and it’s tiring. They think I’m still the 10 yr old kid who doesn’t know a thing about the world.
@micchon You probably won’t know who you are until you get yourself away from them. What country do you live in?
@micchon The world might be a bit tougher than you think. With no job and no support it is very difficult to pull yourself up out of the depths. Once there it is too easy to keep sliding deeper into the hole.
Is it possible your parents are worried about you and your future? Is there reason for them to be concerned about you having an unexpected child? Do you expect them to support, house, feed, and clothe you while you do as you wish?
Life does not work that way. With freedom comes responsibility.
If you are that stressed then go see a social worker and ask to be hospitalized and go on disability.
Do not do anything or make decisions while your mind is clouded by frustration or anger. That’s a good point.
And it does get better, trust me.
One day you’ll find yourself back to your body again and be able to make peace to this world.
No other wise advice, but I’ve been there, just saying.
huh? You have to be super vigilant and really quick thinking to survive homelessness. Sounds like you’re talking out your arse, please stop, think, and quietly asses your situation. Don’t do anything rash. Good luck to you. PS bitcoins are not a homeless thing hahaha
@talljasperman, why would you give him the easy way out and not encourage him to work his way out and stand on his feet. He can do it, so can most people if they set their mind to it and start not to sell themselves short!
@ZEPHYRA Stress can be managed with help from a trained professional. Medication might help too.
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